You’re Walking A Fine Line Sweetie: How To Avoid Sabotaging Your Own Relationship

January 31, 2013 ‐ By Ashley Page

Even in the best of relationships, you may find that your inner mean girl comes out to play; you know the one who’s full of doubt, jealousy, and negativity. But, this inner girl can easily sabotage your relationship and before you know it, the whole thing can be done and over with. If you fear that you may self-sabotage your relationship, here are 15 ways to avoid doing just that.



Let your inner fears out

We all have fears, even when we are in stable and healthy relationships. As women, we have certain feelings that we often suppress, but eventually they come to the surface. Instead of avoiding these fears, voice them, write them down, or talk about them with your man. Are you afraid of having your heart broken? Do you think you aren’t lovable enough? Let it out; you’ll feel better.

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  • boom!

    Finally some good info but dang, 15 pages…I must’ve been bored. lol

  • NOnya

    I think people that DON”T want to be in a relationship, are the ones actually sabotaging the “relationship” and make the ones that want to be in one BELIEVE that they are messing it up. Mind games.

    • boom!

      I get your point but maybe it’s someone insecure, someone afraid of being hurt especially if the new mate is good to them.

  • Mztisa

    Surprisingly good article despite the 15 pages! Not the usual your a “hot mess girl!” article…kudos!

  • Love this article! Great way to start the day. A lot of women need to know this.

  • Carribean Lorelei

    Good article

  • Robyn

    Ok not this morning, *15 pages* I’ll cross that bridge when i get there!