Don’t Fall For The Game! 14 Ways to Spot A Player Right Off The Bat

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January 29, 2013 ‐ By Ashley Page
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We all know that some men can be as good as gold while others are the complete opposite. We’ve read about them in the media and heard about them from friends, and we all know that players are guys we want to avoid when it comes to the dating scene. To avoid getting burned, here are 14 tips to easily identify a player.

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  • Bright like a diamond

    Might I also add that “playas” are slicker than your average. I knew one who wanted to meet the parents and friends but still had almost all of the other qualities as well, SMDH!

  • YES gAWD

    Ok Madame noire…DO me this kindness…Put 1-14 on 1 page…and list these items. HOW overkill can you be to make your users click thru 14 pages for a cute (NON RELATED) PIC and one sentence. if you can put a NOVEL about Beyonce on 1 page then you can type 1-14 on a page. I wont be doing that again….thanks.

    And about the topic, Because I only got to page 6 before I was OVER IT. Ummm listen to the way a man talks and what he talks about. If his maturity level is LOW, and you are more in touch with talking about grown topics (not s3x) and all he can talk about is football, s3x, strippers, hos, and his friends…then chances ARE. He not really boyfriend/husband material. You may be on that same page and willing to grow, but if you are not, you will lose interest fast. If you are even interested at all. for me a man needs to talk about GOD, his goals in life, and his views on relationships, and things about himself. my opinion anyway.

    • http://twitter.com/UnionCity260 Beverly Ann

      Yeah because this is HELLA ANNOYING!!!

  • Team nymphis

    Most of these things speak to a needy clingy insecure woman

  • Team nymphis

    Fems know a player when they see one.and they always think they’re the one to change me.but in the end it’s me that ain’t shxt.i keep telling them don’t make future plans with me.i get bored easily

    • Bright like a diamond

      Lol! That reminds me of the song by prince “I could never take the place of your man”

  • http://twitter.com/plussize_beau20 chantal_beverly

    U can’t blame the playa nor the the game… Blame yourself for falling for the playa and his game!

  • Patricia

    He does not want to go in public and he wants to come to your house at night. I came across a bunch of they. Playas for show.

  • Patricia

    He does not want to go in public and he wants to come to your house at night. I came across a bunch of they. Playas for show.

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