What’s A Relationship Deal Breaker For You? 9 Men To Give A Chance Or Give The Boot

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January 17, 2013 ‐ By Clarke Gail Baines

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Every woman is very different when it comes to what they can and can’t do when it comes to men and relationships. What is one woman’s trash can be another woman’s treasure and knight in shining armor. And after having many an interesting conversation on social media about what’s a no-no and what can be overlooked in a man, I thought it would be interesting to once again post some different kind of men and different type of situations so that you can figure out what you want…cause you don’t know what you want girl (kidding!). And who knows? In the future, the right guy might come around and change your mind. But until then, let’s chat girl!

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  • http://twitter.com/jola_jade Jola Jade

    I’m not really too sure how a man with female friends is a deal breaker? Doesn’t that mean he’s more sympathetic to feminine issues? BUT then again, I am new to this dating game. I would take a man with TEMPORARY financial difficulties due to unemployment or bad credit, but NO to a cheater, a criminal, a bisexual man, the men my age should be too young to have kids if they’re really interested in their careers and I’m not very religious, and I’ve always believed a person’s religion is their own business

  • Alexis_Gloria

    I wouldn’t work with any of them All of them are dealbreakers

  • Chocolicious

    Umm if u saw the trailer for Shawty’s show indeed there are plenty women who will put up wit that bull ish

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      Those women didn’t really look like the epitome of class ,elegance or intelligence. . .. IJS

  • HOUSTON

    NO BISEXUAL MAN,
    NO JOBLESS MAN NOT LOOKING FOR A JOB,
    NO MAN WITH A CRIMINAL PAST LIKE MOLESTING, MURDER, ROBBERY,
    NO MAN WITHOUT A GOAL TO BETTER HIMSELF,
    NO MAN WHO DO NOT FINANCIALLY PROVIDE FOR HIS CHILD,
    NO MAN WITHOUT A CAR,
    NO MAN WHO CAN’T AFFORD TO DATE A WOMAN,
    A MAN WITH NO PRIDE.
    A MAN WHOSE PARENTS HAVE TO FINANCIALLY BAIL HIM OUT ALL THE TIME.
    A MAN WHO IS ON HIS WAY TO BE MORBIDLY AND UNHEALTHY OBESE

  • unorthodoxjukebox

    How can a man with children be a deal breaker? His baby mama’s are not my business! Unless the kid is more than 1 that’s when. I have a problem. Aside that there’s nothing wrong with a single man with kids. You’re on your own,the kid is on his/her own too,what’s my business with them?as long as I love him then no problem. I would never date a bisexual man period! Criminal past hell no

  • ctelle

    for me 6 and 8 are not but the max is 2 children.. the rest are deal breakers.

  • Miyako

    I would pass on everything on this list.

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      ditto

  • Miyako

    Men aren’t taught or told to give women who they may not initially want a chance, so why should women?

  • iHeartMarijuana

    I would date a jobless man, a man with bad credit (how is that a deal breaker, that’s not what love is), I would date a former criminal, I would date the former cheater. I would DEFINITELY date a man with different religious beliefs, I’m Agnostic / love Jesus / raised Muslim, nobody has the same beliefs as me, I couldn’t care less lol.
    I would CONSIDER the man with kids but probably say no, I hate baby mamas. I would NEVER – EVER – EVER date a bisexual man, hell no. I would probably not date the man who doesn’t want to get married or who only has female friends, those are HUGE red flags.

  • Stanley Dada

    I don’t wanna ever get married. I’m doing very well in the dating world despite this small, little, tiny, bitty, deal breaker.

  • http://www.youtube.com/user/thesapphireempress96?feature=results_main A.J.

    The only two on this list that aren’t deal breakers for me are the men having a hard time finding a job and the men with kids. I understand that the economy can be tough, but as long as he’s actively applying himself into looking for a job, I have no problem with that. And the men with kids, as long as they don’t have a bunch of baby mamas running all over the place, and are actually concerned about the welfare of their children, fine. But, the rest of them, no way, Jose! Especially a bisexual man and one with different religious beliefs. My faith is a very important part of who I am, and I don’t want to compromise that. And I don’t want to have to worry about a guy checking out other guys, or thinking about them while talking to me. To each his own, but that’s just me.

  • CommonSense

    Hell NO to the bisexual man, too freaky. Wish I could find somebody withouth children but gave up long ago. I would work with a guy with bad credit, there’s ways to fix it. I don’t want a guy with a criminal background but honestly it depends on the crime. If its real bad, I’m running in the opposite direction. Guy with cheating past ? Never make them your man but honestly how would you know, dogs never tell on themselves, and no I can’t get down with that new day, marriage is a no no type thing. I want to marry one day and have a REAL family, not a pretend one with 2/3 different guys like they do nowadays. How can you have a ” family ” with kids by more then one guy ??????

  • Maurietta Amara

    Its kind of hard nowadays, a lot of these men don’t have a job. Sometimes you can meet a man who has all of the qualities that you want but they are having a hard time finding work. I don’t want a bisexual man because I would be so insecure.

  • sabrina

    Thinking about it, ALL of these are deal breakers for me. Especially the one about having different beliefs. My faith is too strong to deal with that.

  • RJA

    Well, the only thing on this list that i can tolerate is having different religious beliefs, everything else is a DEAL BREAKER

  • Jess

    I think Frank Ocean is cute too, but dating a bisexual man is an absolute hell no for me.

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