A Rough Patch Or A Bad Attitude? Signs You Are Dating A Pessimist

January 29, 2013 ‐ By Julia Austin


Even the most positive of people will have their down days when life gets the best of them; when so much has stacked up against them that their usual cheery defenses are shot. So don’t panic if your man hits a rough patch. But that’s all it should be—a patch. Because being someone’s cheerleader every day, and having to believe in someone when he doesn’t believe in himself, is not only exhausting; it’s unhealthy. All your energy will go to supporting the other person, and you’ll have none left for yourself. And the saddest part is, that energy will be wasted because you can’t make a person think positively who doesn’t want to. So, are you dating a negative man? Here are the signs.

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  • Dre

    I would consider somebody with these behaviors depressed and in need of help. Don’t know how u would go about though.

  • kathicks01

    These men are losers….

  • Dee

    I don’t need to click through 20 pages to realize my ex was a paranoid pessimist. He always found something to be paranoid about and after two years of being the supporting gf, I had had enough.

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