Don’t Get Catfished! 10 Tips For Finding A Good (Real) Date On The Internet

January 15, 2013 ‐ By madamenoire


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From Essence


Over half of all singles in the United States have used an online dating site before. Their use accounts for one out of every five relationships and one out of every six marriages. Given this compelling data, you would think most people would be singing praises of online dating websites, but this isn’t the case. I hear daily complaints, jokes, and even lawsuits about the crappiness of the “online dating experience.” I find most disgruntled users don’t have a plan. They simply get online and hope. But hope is not a strategy. If you want to make online dating work for you, you need a plan. Here are 10 tips to help:

Think Beyond “Dating Sites”

Don’t limit yourself to only online dating sites. There are many other sites that focus on building friendship through social discovery and networking. Sites like Facebook, Tagged and Meetup have all been used to broker relationships.

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  • Babydoll 70

    Who the heck uses FB for a means of dating, you’re just asking for it. FB gives you the ability to hide certain things from certain people and vice versa, that’s a horrible idea, in my opinion.

  • afroveda

    Those people on Catfish simply aren’t using what should be common sense. Would you really maintain a relationship with someone for YEARS online without even so much as video chatting? The host, Nev, is not a detective. People can easily do what he does to find out more information about a person they’ve been chatting it up with online.
    If you need further comedy, Dormtainment has a funny spoof on YouTube of the show.