It Does A Body Good: 10 Reasons to Have Sex…Even When You Don’t Want To!

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January 13, 2013 ‐ By Brooke Dean

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While most would agree that sex is a vital part of any strong, passionate relationship, the reality is not all men and women are always in the mood. If you’ve been together for years, chances are the sex has either become routine or isn’t the focal point of the relationship anymore – especially if children are in the picture. While the days of tearing each other’s clothes off and swinging from the chandeliers might be over (okay, maybe hanging from light fixtures is a bit much but you get the point), don’t put sex on the back burner completely. Sex has its benefits, so even if you have to schedule it in, here are 10 reasons you should have sex regularly…even if you don’t want to.

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  • Cherry

    Ok seriously, it’s a dude that wrote this piece right?? lmao

  • Aubrey Ann

    Even when you don’t want to? So just give a man carte Blanche to rape! After all, sex does all these things. This is foul. So very foul.

  • CriticXtreme

    It’s gotten to the point where sex has become russian roulette. Even when properly protected, you’re still not protected. The MONSTER and Her-pes are everywhere.

    • Ms. Kameria

      That may be true, but some form of protection is better than no protection at all.

  • Ms. Kameria

    Don’ t need too much convincing to have (good) sex, but with A LOT of protection of course.

    • Marquis de Sade

      Sorry, but RAW DAWG is best! – Especially when you find some of that “ONCE IN A LIFE TIME” good puzzy that lights up the NIGHT!

      • Kay

        Yeah that once in a life time puzzzy gon have you laid up with a lifetime of AIDS

        • Marquis de Sade

          Yeah, but at least I had fun when I caught it!

          • Kenedy

            Lets hope you find dying fun too

          • Kay

            Smh niggass

          • tina

            Yeah, that’s dumb. Your life for five minutes?! Please. If you’re committed, ok, but if not…that ‘puzzy’ will light up your ‘peezy’! I’m talking neon lights, and a Hazmat suit to touch ‘you’! :-X

        • DTJ

          I immediately started laughin lmao i read this post w the voice of florence from The Jeffersons in my head

        • DTJ

          I immediately started laughin lmao i read this post w the voice of florence from The Jeffersons in my head

        • JaneDoe

          Dead.. I hope it’s after yhey both get tested.. Smh @that whole statement

        • Babydoll 70

          I cannot stop laughing at this comment and I needed a good laugh. Thanks, this is the best one I’ve read thus far.

      • Ms. Kameria

        I’ m sorry, but I’ m not trying to catch no STDs or the baby mama disease, so you can have that Raw Dog “once in a lifetime” foolishness all to yourself……you’ re welcome.

      • Stanley Dada

        Are you ok, son?

    • flyer27

      so you’re saying you will never have raw sex??

      • Ms. Kameria

        That’ s exactly what I’ m saying. Been protected since I started having sex. Call it whatever you want, but I would rather be that than walking around looking crazy for 9 months (18+ years) looking crazy wondering where/ who my baby daddy is, OR walking around with a dripping p***y.

        • flyer27

          ??? so you’re basically saying you will use a condom to sex your husband rather than doing it raw?? looking forward reading your hypocritical answer.

          • Ms. Kameria

            Well, I’m only 25 and don’t have a husband, and I’m not wasting my life to find one, but if I did get married, I would still use condoms + an IUD, because I don’t want kids. Furthermore, because I’m not married, I still use condoms (with my IUD of course) with each and every person I’m sleeping with, not only to prevent pregnancy the “baby mama disease”, but also to prevent STDs. I have to be protected at all times. See how I broke that down into two points….but the main point is fukcing with no condom is a no win situation……not hypocritical, just my logic.Sorry if you don’t like it, but I refuse to have unprotected sex, and end up a statistic.

            • flyer27

              be real kameria, you will really use condom with your husband? selfish much? i understand everything youre stating in regards to what can happen, but you open up could be bad for your commitment. nice name by the way. got a friend with the same name and age.

              • Ms. Kameria

                Yes I would with my husband (If I had one, if I wanted one). Thank you very much about my name though……and yes I am selfish, and I let it be known from the gate. No condom, no sex……no STDs, no kids, no worries.

                • flyer27

                  dear kameria. hmm. good luck, in a good way. hope your selfishness make it worthwhile with him.

                  • Ms. Kameria

                    : )

  • fyahfly

    #7#7#7 is sabotage!! Lol that would make somebody come back! *No pun intended * Lol

    • bluekissess

      Who needs C when D can be more useful

  • very_ opinionated

    No wonder my skin has been acting up lately

    • Steups

      if all these things in the article were true then hoes & prostitutes would be beauty queens….don’t believe the hype

      • very_ opinionated

        Lol very good point