Are You a Kenya Moore? 10 Signs You’re Desperate For Marriage

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9. You Want a Father For Your Child

Perhaps your biological clock isn’t ticking so loudly because you already have a child, but you want the whole package: mother, father, child, dog and white picket fence. You know, the so-called “American dream.” So to get it, you desperately seek to find a man who not only will marry you, but be a father to your child(ren). Some women want the “complete” family so badly they don’t take the time to vet a man before bringing him around her children…which could lead to disaster and have serious repercussions on the child. Some women even go so far as to choose the affections of a man over their child, because they want to be a wife so badly they either neglect their child or put them in dangerous situations. If you’re already a single mother, taking the time to make sure you bring the right man into your child’s life is imperative to both of you, so don’t rush it and don’t settle for just any man who shows you and your child some attention. You don’t want your child to feel neglected, insecure or unsafe because you have a revolving door of potential husbands coming through. Do you even want to teach your child – especially if you have a daughter – what desperation looks like?  Be a parent first, and let love find you and your child when the time is right – not when you force it.

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