Q: “I am 39-years-old and on my second marriage. My husband and I haven’t had sex in two years. We both put on extreme amounts of weight, and I just joined the gym again this week. I feel like my husband blames me for the weight gain and thinks it’s the reason he is bigger and why we don’t have sex. I hate how I look, and I am not physically attracted to him either. I love him, but if we divorced, I know I would survive. How do I stay motivated to go to the gym and get the zing back in my marriage?”
See what celebrity psychologist Sherry Blake has to say about this couple’s situation on Essence.com.