1. Have Sex
It’s pretty rare to bump into a virgin these days, but unlike unicorns and leprechauns, I know that there are some out there. If you’ve made a vow to yourself and/or God that you would abstain from having sex until you get married, that is a decision that any man you are dating should respect. If he can’t hang, then bounce him. Some men will see dating a virgin as a challenge and will stop at nothing to “deflower” her…and will hang in there for as long as it takes to do so. Then next thing you know, he’s gone missing and you have to send out a search and rescue team to find him. Stick to your guns and let him know that while you love him, you want to wait until you’re married…or until the time is right for you. If the time isn’t right for you, then it’s not right for you BOTH, and a man who honors and cherishes you will wait.