What Was That About? Things Men Do During Sex That Make Us Think They Don’t Love Us

December 28, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin


Whether it’s their animal instincts kicking in, or something they thought looked fun in Adult Videos, men can do some pretty insensitive things during sex. Sometimes, they mean well and their attempt to spice things up was just misguided, sometimes they really do just view us as a booty call, but either way, these things make us feel like an interchangeable piece of meat.

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  • Tom

    12 is bullshit. Don’t speak for 3.5 billion.

  • joblo

    What made you think they loved you in the first place? Most of the guys you have sex with in your lifetime DON’T.

  • Sara

    Hmm, I didn’t find any of these offensive – if you really love to have sex and please your partner. Men love freaks plain and simple.

  • Edwin

    Most of these answers are the reasons why we don’t like black women. European women are more freakier and don’t feel the way these women do.

  • Lexx Bot

    Not all of these are that bad.. some behaviors worse than these would be shamelessly farting in your face while going down on them, pressuring you into anal, demanding a sammich or something similar immediately afterwords, or turning on the tv / Xbox immediately afterwards with no signs of appreciation of you satisfying them ..

  • Marina Calis

    I like this artlcie…it gives men something to go on,in case they didn’t know.

  • Taneesha Culture Clash Thomas

    this article is funny as hell!

  • AJ389

    Damn! Who in hell y’all been sexin’? A change is definitely in order, handle that.

  • DJango unchained

    So you speak for all women? Some women like some of the things mentioned. The main reason why men go soft is because you take our mind off the sex,and want to ‘talk’ about what you don’t like.Maybe over the phone while you are being wooed ,is the time to bring stuff up.Some guys don’t want to kiss after some chick just sucked his man tool..The same women that is complaining about this is the same ones whining about how boring things are in the bedroom.

  • Doll

    Did anyone proof this? What is “Skiping?” I just can’t…..SMH….

  • Ladybug94

    One problem is assuming he loves you just because he’s having sex with you.

    • RisingSun

      Took the words right out of my mouth lol

  • Pivyque

    I got to page 7 and stopped. It sounds like a list of things you just want to whine about.

    • I agree with you wholeheartedly. I started yawning at page 5, I don’t like to kiss period. As long as my man gives me at least two good orgasms during sex he can go straight to sleep afterwards, save me the trouble of cuddling. I don’t care if you throw the towel at me, I can clean my own self up. Men don’t do such a good job of cleaning the “wonder down under” wiping back to front and giving me a bacterial infection. No thank you!!!

  • Stanley Dada

    If you can’t tell me you don’t like it, I assume you like it.

    • rzakia

      You’re right. I’m very vocal before, during, and afterwards. If I don’t like something I will most certainly let the man I’m with know. I don’t get women who feel comfortable enough to have sex with a man but don’t feel comfortable enough with him to tell them what they do and don’t like. That’s crazy to me. I feel like if I’m going to have sex with you it’s going to be enjoyable, I’m not going to be all mad and disappointed. So I’m going to let you know the deal.

      • Pivyque

        Right! I can’t understand for the life of me why women fake orgasms and then complain about their sex life.

        • hollyw

          B/c it’s easier than dealing w/ men’s ever-existing fragile egos. One word, they go soft and/or cry. Two words, they get angry, then don’t want to try. Three words, and they try, but still miss the mark. And miss again. And again. It’s not a young- or old-, good- or bad-man issue; it’s a MAN issue. The men of today are a bit more in-tuned w/ women’s needs (^though perhaps not this one^), but still have a looong ways to go.

          • Pivyque

            I wouldn’t go so far as to say that it is a man issue. My husband listened without getting upset or soft. The only way for us to learn how to please each other was to listen. Some men have fragile egos and some don’t. I’m lucky enough to be with somebody that could handle constructive criticism. I guess it’s all about how you say it.

          • Slingblade

            I don’t go to sleep after a bout of sex,I make ma girl fix me some corn bread and beans and then she get me a beer. After a good long fart I nods off,we been married for 20 years.

    • hollyw

      …b/c for most men, the SECOND you mention a dislike, ESP. during, they go completely soft =| That’s why.

  • Guest89

    Wasn’t this already posted a while back…without all the spelling errors? Skipping has two p’s.

    • joblo

      I know, right? It’s been over a year and a half and they still haven’t fixed it.

  • unrequitedlove

    uHow during a marathon session whenun things start to dry up a bit your guy just hog spits on his palm to lube up your c00ch o_0 that grosses me out

    • Hell naw..Dead LOL

    • Alexa

      LMFAO! That is so disgusting.

      • Monkeepaw

        Where’s the articles about when the coochie smells like a dead mouse got stuck down there? LOL LAMO !!!

    • tunrequitedlove

      *how about

    • RJA

      I hate that!! LOL

    • RJA

      I hate that!! LOL

    • DJango unchained

      Maybe you should stay away from those Hill Billies baby,or if the c00cho_le has a moisture problem take some initiative to keep some KY jelly handy and insight.