Read This Before You Trust ANY Man!

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China describes: Scenario 1 for the ladies.

You’ve been single forever. You meet this amazing, hot-butter specimen who seems like a winner. Your heart has been broken enough times, so you already know you’re going to play it cool and not rush into “I love you” on your third date. You’re a smart chocolate chip cookie, but should you carry that chip on your shoulder with every man?

Anthony responds: Some people are able to let go and to break forth from their hurtful past.  For others, forgiveness is fairly difficult and ultimately results in the proverbial “chip on the shoulder.”  To carry this “chip on the shoulder” with every man can prove detrimental not only to your health but also can potentially turn a very good man away who could be a very good husband, friend, lover and father.  The past is the past, you are in the present.

China: Right. So…how do you know when to trust the “new” potential boo?

Anthony: Trust is established over a period of time, and communication and actions are the keys to building trust.  Really examine your potential boo so that you can understand him.  Trust cannot be built if you do not understand a person.  At face value, this hot-butter specimen may be able to put on a good show for a certain period of time.  However, if he is not genuine, then his flaws will eventually show.  On the whole, keep learning about your potential boo and observe how he consistently treats others.  When you feel comfortable in your inner being through careful analysis and observation, then you should be able to safely open the doors of trust.

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