You Might Want To Avoid Large Groups of Girlfriends While Meeting Men

December 17, 2012  |  

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From Single Black Male

I don’t go out as often as I used to in my younger days, but there is one phenomenon that has baffled me since I was young: large groups of single women “looking” to meet a man. To be clear, most large groups of women aren’t looking to meet men.  Most women (claim they) go out to enjoy the company of their friends, drink, and have a good time. The last thing they (claim they) want to do is meet a man! This is despite the fact that they spent hours shaving, plucking, and dressing in an sexually appealing manner, yet will simultaneously argue that they didn’t shave, pluck, and dress up for other women. So who are they dressed up and looking good for? I have no idea; themselves, I guess.

On the other hand, most men go out to meet women.  Men shave and dress up for women – and they admit it. Some people report that you can’t find your wife/husband in the club – or apparently, anywhere on Earth that men and women might consistently frequent – which is strange, since the people who say this are the same people who frequent these places the most often. But, back to the issue at hand. Why do women bring so many other women with them to places they claim they want to meet a man, and why are they so hesitant to go to those places by themselves?


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  • JettMane

    i don’t approach women in groups.

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  • Kaori

    I don’t know why MN keeps posting articles from SBM. They are only interested in pushing their sexist, patriarchal views.

  • Kaori

    Women are hesitant to go to certain places alone for safety reasons.

    And yes, there are women who get dressed up for themselves.

  • too much competition. keep the women friends out of your love life. you’ll increase your chances of getting and keeping a good man.

  • bluekissess

    Duh. This seems like common sense to me

  • Nope

    Two of the dumbest things women complain about in groups are caused by doing them in a group:

    1) restroom lines 2) meeting men while out with your girlfriends