Why Her and Not Me?! 9 Reasons He Chose Her Over You

5. She Brings More to the Table

This isn’t to say all woman don’t have any valuable attributes to offer to the right guy but a lot of women expect a man to meet everything on her checklist while not being able to say they bring the same things to the table. I’ve met women who say, “He’s smart, successful, talented, owns a home, a car and is a God-fearing man”, but never hear how they compliment each other. Men want a woman who are their equal as well and if he can’t say the same things about you that you say about him, then he may still date you – but he may not marry you. Chances are, he’s just sticking around until the woman he feels is his match comes along. If you want to avoid that, make sure you review your checklist and then see if you meet your own criteria. If you can honestly say that you do not, then avoiding dating until can you say that you are everything that YOU want in a mate. Then you’ll have a better chance of meeting your match, because you will attract what you are.