Why Her and Not Me?! 9 Reasons He Chose Her Over You

4. She Checks Him

Most secure women don’t let men get away with disrespecting them, and women who demand respect usually get it. No one respects a person they can walk all over and if you’re the type to let a man get away with murder just to say you have a man, then he’ll quickly be looking elsewhere. Some women make their man their whole lives allowing behavior that they shouldn’t just to hold on to him. But a woman who shows a man that she can and WILL walk away from him at the slightest indiscretion because she has standards and expects him to rise to the meet them will usually get the guy who is willing to step up. While most cowardly men would shy away from a woman like that, some men find that appealing and seek women who will bring out the best in them. If you don’t have any standards, will accept any behavior thrown at you and allow people to treat you any way they please, then you’ll either end up with a jerk who will stay with you because he can get away with anything, or he’ll leave you for a woman who knows her worth and won’t tolerate nonsense. If you want to be more in control of what happens to you in your next relationship, then nurture your spirit and teach people how to treat you, and you’ll be able to weed out the boys from the men and not waste your precious time.