Why Her and Not Me?! 9 Reasons He Chose Her Over You

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2. She Doesn’t Pressure Him

Now, if timing isn’t truly the issue and he’s actually the committed type, then it’s possible that the two of you don’t share the same time frame when it comes to relationships and marriage. A lot of men are skittish about marriage in general, so if he feels pressure or that you have an agenda, that could scare him off. There’s nothing wrong with letting a person know that you’d like to get married and have children one day, but it’s another thing to constantly remind him that your clock is ticking and you already have your wedding dress picked out. He will think that you just want a man to call a husband and make babies with rather than wanting him for HIM. If he thinks you’re just trying to snag a man – any man – he won’t feel special. Take your time to get to know the next man and figure out if he’s really someone you enjoy spending time with rather than trying to size him up on the first date as your future husband. Otherwise, the pressure could be too much for him, and he’ll seek a woman who just enjoys the relationship itself without pressuring him to marry her.

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