Can You Handle It: Does Size Really Matter?

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December 10, 2012 ‐ By madamenoire

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From YourTango

Every day I counsel men and women who are concerned about improving their sex lives. The sad truth is that most of us are very poorly educated about sexuality despite the plethora of media attention on it.

One of the questions men (and women) often ask about is penis size. Most males, at some time in their lives, worry about whether they are “big enough.”  Many women wonder whether bigger is better.

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  • IllyPhilly

    I’ll be sitting on his face the whole time so I guess it doesn’t matter.

  • IllyPhilly

    I’ll be sitting on his face the whole time so I guess it doesn’t matter.

  • ……………

    I am one woman who is not on that bigger is better trip…. i still have walls so a huge piece is very painful….a nice average size with some nice girth is all i need

  • Nikki

    However, it’s not a deal breaker.

  • York

    Why are we still talking about this???

    Sorry men…SIZE MATTERS. Just like y’all don’t want to go spelunking in a huge cave, we don’t want to go looking for a grown man and find a toddler!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1438551270 Jessica Lucinda Williams

    of course size matters, i don’t want or need anything up in me giving me a hysterectomy, and it should not be so small that it makes me feel like i’m sleeping with another woman.

  • Fiedah

    Big is great, but he has to know how to use it. A man can be reg size but if he has skills, he can still make you get there time and time again.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1438551270 Jessica Lucinda Williams

      met someone like that years ago. was HUGE!! but couldn’t use that mickey fickey to save his life. what a waste!

  • Kaori

    Goodness gracious! Are you an adult or 12-year-old boy?

    • KIR12

      Why didn’t you ask the same question to all the women commenting on a man size? lol

      • Kaori

        Because YOU are the one who is ignorant about the female sexual organ.

  • http://www.youtube.com/user/ChakaKhanian?feature=mhee ChakaKhanian

    Simply put- yes. Go from having cruise ships to encountering a tugboat and see if you will be quoting that ‘it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean’ mess.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1438551270 Jessica Lucinda Williams

      LOL!!!

    • Nikki

      It’s also about how long the boat can stay in the dock…

  • Nikki

    You know those kegel balls Kandi was wearing on RHOATL? That’ll do the trick.

    • KIR12

      I’ve heard women say that, I wonder if their sex partner fills the same way.

      • littleoleme

        I see what you did there. LMAO.

    • KIR12

      I’ve heard women say that, I wonder if their sex partner fills the same way.

  • Good Look

    The picture for this article is very distracting!

    • bluekissess

      Lmao I thought I was the only one. Why does he look like somebody I know? It’s odd very odd

    • IllyPhilly

      Because he’s thinking, “Damn you ain’t have to say sit ya lil’ ding a ling a$$ down like that.”

    • IllyPhilly

      Because he’s thinking, “Damn you ain’t have to say sit ya lil’ ding a ling a$$ down like that.”

  • get real

    Size matters, yet all of u women here are chasing white boys. Lol. Yeah yeah I know “there’s some white guys with big…” yada yada.

    • Nikki

      Please don’t generalize. Not all of us are “chasing” white boys.

      • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1438551270 Jessica Lucinda Williams

        i know that’s right! my hubby is Hershey bar chocolate!!

    • Miss Anonymous

      Dang I didnt know what comes in dark chocolate now. If he is white does that mean Im white too cause if so I need to start cashing in on these white privileges….

      • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1438551270 Jessica Lucinda Williams

        LOL!

  • UnrequitedLove

    Size matters to a certain extent.It’s all about how you work it.It’s nothing worse then having a man with a nice healthy sausage but he f#$* off beat.

    • pretty1908

      WHY DID I JUST SCREAM ….YALL ARE SILLY BUT I CONCUR ! WIDTH AND LENGTH IS KEY AND TECHNIQUE IS CRUCIAL

  • Kaori

    It doesn’t matter to me.

  • L-Boogie

    Yes. It is important. But that is not the only factor.

  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    Yes it matters. Every woman who hollers that it doesn’t, hasn’t had a big one. Yesssir Mr. Cheekee Baby is working with a monster.

    • L-Boogie

      LOL!

    • SheBe

      OMG!!!! LMAO!!!!

    • bluekissess

      I wonder if you would’ve made that same comment with your government name?

      • Miss Anonymous

        I wonder if a woman ever shouted out loud her man that she love and married got a small one…..

        • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

          ROFLMAO! Thank you!

      • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

        You sound jealous or something. I’m not sure what my government name and what I post on here has to do with one another. Care to enlighten me?

        • bluekissess

          I don’t know you to be jealous of you. So, what would I be jealous about? A lot of people would say anything behind a user name that’s what I’m implying.

          • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

            So I have a reason to lie because . . . ?

            • bluekissess

              It’s obvious you can’t comprehend I never called you a liar. I just said that a lot of people. Will say anything behind a user name. Would you have made that same comment on Facebook under your real name. That’s all I’m asking

              • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

                Obviously your point was dumb as Hell! What difference could it possibly make to an internet stranger whether I would say that on my Facebook page? Now really what benefit to your life could asking that question really give? If I wanna brag on my husband’s p*nis I will whether that be Facebook or Madame Noire is that cool with you?

                • bluekissess

                  No opinion or question is dumb. I’m guessing they didn’t teach you that in school. Does your comment have any benefit to my life? No. None of these articles or comments do. It’s merely entertainment. I read the article, read the comments & voice my opinion. Since we’re on the subject of “benefits to ones life” what makes you think others care how big your significant other is? If this was an essay question you probably would’ve failed. The question states Does size matter? The response is usually Yes or No. After that you would explain your argument. I re-read the article and it didn’t say anything about mentioning your significant others size. My question to you was either a yes or no. Once again you’ve failed because I’ve never mentioned your comment benefiting my life. I don’t know you ma’am I was just conversing. Conversing usually has questions and answers. Am I not allowed to question your thought? Congratulations on displaying your man’s size I’m sure it would “benefit someone’s life.”

                  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

                    LOL girl bye! I made a comment on an article for whatever reason YOU took offense to what I posted. Instead of being woman about that you tried to throw in a snarky passive aggressive question. You’re not slick and it didn’t go unnoticed. I never EVER heard someone say “there is no such thing as a dumb point” Nice try though.

                    Let’s deal with the real issue shall we? I responded to an article asking whether size really matters my response was yes it does. For whatever reason YOU didn’t feel it was appropriate for me to allude to the size of my husband’s member. So instead of saying something to that affect you decided to throw in a passive aggressive smart-azz comment pondering on whether I would make such a comment under my real name, because for some unknown reason I ought to be ashamed of my comment.

                    I’m neither shamed or hard pressed about what some anonymous, faceless, internet poster feels about what I have to say on this site.

                    And to answer your question, would I have made that comment on Facebook? I don’t see why not if it was germain to the subject of discussion.

                    • bluekissess

                      I’m ignoring your nonsense. You have a pleasant day. I just don’t feel like reading your garbage response :) again have a good one.

                    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

                      You have a good day too! :)

        • Kaori

          Does your first name begin with a ‘K’ and your last name an ‘M’? I was just reading some comments on USA Today and I saw the same avatar, and I thought, “Wait a minute, this avatar picture is so familiar!”

          • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

            lol no. It’s a stock Mircosoft photo.

            • Kaori

              Really? What a coincidence!

              • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

                Yes really.

  • Miss_Understood

    Does size matter-no…SIKE! It definitely does matter, how you gon build a house if you ain’t got the right tools?? If he don’t fit that gold wrappin-I don’t let it happen!

  • JaneDoe

    MN repeating articles I see. IMO no and yes. He can’t have an itty bitty but from my experience the smallest peen I even had was one of the best experiences I have had sexually. Once the thought of how much smaller his peen was then the sex actually got good

    • bluekissess

      Yes MN is on STOP REWIND AND REPEAT mode

  • OHHH

    Yes, a man is not a man without a big one. Women have two options: boobs and behind. Men on the other hand only got one that matters so yes size does matter.

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