Girl, Don’t Waste Your Time: 9 Signs He Might Be Wack in Bed!

7. He Avoids Sex

It’s hard to find a man out there who turns down sex so if the guy you’ve been on 37 dates with hasn’t even tried to go there with you, then he’s either gay or has no idea what he’s doing and he’s afraid to disappoint you. If he’s got a small package, is a two minute brother or has intimacy issues, then he probably knows it and will do anything possible to avoid sex as long as he can. He may tell you that he respects you and doesn’t want to rush you, or that he’s waiting for marriage – which are all noble things. But if you sense that he’s uncomfortable with the idea of sex altogether, there could be something deeper going on. This doesn’t necessarily mean you should give up on him, especially if he’s a great guy. But if you’re looking for mind-blowing sex, you might not get it with this guy until after he’s seen a shrink or worked out his intimacy issues.