1. He Can’t Dance
I don’t expect a man to be able to bust a move like Hammer, Usher or Chris Breezy, but I DO expect him to at least have his two-step down. And by down, I mean “on beat.” Not being a professional dancer is one thing, but lacking rhythm is another. Usually if a man lacks rhythm on the dance floor, he lacks rhythm in the bed as well. If you meet a man at the club and you both can’t seem to get in sync with body movement on the floor, then chances are he won’t flow with you between the sheets either. Sex is about more than simple biology. It’s about passion, flow, rhythm and chemistry – the same things that make for great dancing. If he dances to the words, rather than the beat, then don’t waste your time bedding him unless good sex doesn’t mean that much to you.