Q: I am 32-years-old and I’ve just been dating here and there. I truly do want to be in a “real relationship”, however I don’t understand why I keep attracting guys who are not even divorced yet. They are “separated,” but to me, that means still married. This one guy, who is married, is trying so hard to talk to me. I told him so many times that I just want to be friends because he is still married. His daughter is my student, and when I see him he will call four times after that and ask to see me again. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be with him because he is married. I want to do what is right for me. How can I tell him we’re “just friends,” and how can I attract the right person for me? — Anonymous
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