How to Get Your Man Back (After You’ve Messed Up)

October 14th, 2010 - By Erica Renee

You and your man have called it quits but you’ve decided you want him back or maybe you’ve never stopped wanting him. You’re tired of thinking ‘what if’; and if you hear one more silly love song reminding you of how much you miss him, you can’t be held accountable for want may happen.

Although break-ups are difficult, sometimes it doesn’t mean your relationship is completely over; and if major moral violations haven’t been broken there’s a high chance that you can mend your broken relationship.  Of course nothing is guaranteed Mesdames; but if you’re serious about rekindling your romance, following these 10 tips to win back your man is definitely worth the attempt.

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  • guest

    Sound like great tips. However, am I the only one wondering how long to give him space?

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  • K.Buck

    Im loving J. Rock response.. could not have said it better myself!

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  • http://heardhimsay.com Drew-Shane

    Relationships are not perfect and the good part about a good one is growth. You're either with someone who wants to grow with you or after they leave you. Just be happy for growth.

    Good post though, take control! That's what I'm talking about. You never read about the women messing up.

  • http://www.theclassylife.com theclassylife

    With the exception of number 6, these are all things to do to keep a man.

    If you mess up and he has a problem forgiving you in a hurry, then it was not meant to be, and your job is to let him go.

    If he loves you, and you are the one, he is not going to let one error in judgment, one bad call, one slip up, or one mistake to break you guys up. He will work it out. 'Working it out' does not equal 'space'.

    • Penny

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  • 1blkgirlontheinterne

    I agree with 22cent && j.rock.

  • Jason

    I like these Tips for women to use… especially the be unpredictable one because it does help Draw him in… Psychologically…

    I am a Man … and do I believe that women will use these tips .. No… because history has shown that even when it's the woman's fault… a man has to act like he was wrong ..

    My advice is women.. if you mess up.. fall on your sword and just put it all out on the table… if you are afraid that your EX will try to take advantage of the situation then he is probably not worth the time….

    alot of these Steps are aimed at not allowing your Ex to take advantage of the situation which gives no credit to men…

  • 22cent

    *AN excuse my grammar

  • 22cent

    total bull! yea i said it…. this website seems to fault women a lot for problems & issues concerning relationships… An ex is and EXAMPLE of what you shouldn't go for. often times you go back and realize why you left. Make steps to move forward not backward… this article seems to cater to women who arent content being alone. No need to settle and go back to accepting less than his best for the sake of having a "man"… MADAME NOIRE GET SOME SELF WORTH AND ESTEEM AND STOP BASHING BLACK WOMEN

  • june

    I cheated on my boyfriend and gave him space eventually he forgave me. Relationships are tough but sometimes distance makes the heart fonder.

    • Clark Tamara

      I have been with my boyfriend for 1/2 yrs now. But he never said he loves me. One day I can’t stand this anymore, then I asked him why he doesn’t say “I love you” to me ever? His answer is he doesn’t feel he loves me. He tried and thought he can develop love for me, but it doesn’t seem working. Later, he even told me he doesn’t know what he wants from me and from our relationship. Although I am a greatest person, he can’t love me, and I can’t force him to love me. But the more I am with him, the more I fall in love with him. Just he doesn’t feel the same way-still stays in the same stage as the beginning-likes me. How can I make him love me? I need “love” from my boyfriend. If there’s no “love” in a relationship, it’s a dead relationship. I went online for online spell casters and i saw this temple ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com who helped me to make him love me and come back to me if not for the help of Dr Ijebu i would have single till to day all thanks to ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com I am Clark Tamara

  • TalandraB

    I agree this is good if the man hasn't left you but that is what the author said. Dont chase him if he has left you but if you messed up this is good tips.

    • milos

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      • happiness

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    • milos

      Dear friends, i had a problem with my girl friend 2year ago, which lead to our broke up. when she broke up with me, i was not my self again, i fill so empty inside me. until a friend of my Walt pen told me about a spell caster who helped him in the same problem too. i email the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. before i knew what was happening my girl friend gave me a call and told me that she was coming back to me and was so joyous to have her back to me. we have two kids together and we are happy with our selves. thanks to oracletemplesolution@live.com  for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work the great spell caster.

  • Am

    Great Tips! All of them makes a lot of sense, and the order of them…PERFECT!

  • http://www.twitter.com/fashionistajay Jameca

    Love these tips! Especially #4 "draw him in" please give 10 tips on how to get a man!?!

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      • RolandIbharoga

        grace kim 

           DR CHECK I just wanted to say thank you soooo much for the time that you took with me and helping me to get John back. Through all the phone calls and e-mails, you were there for me and helped me to get him back. God has truly blessed you with a very special gift. Never give up and always continue to follow Gods light as you have been and things will continue to look up for you. Just as you told me, God always watches the actions of every person and makes determinations on their future based upon this. Well, I did my part with the extensive negative releasing spell and kept in contact with you, probably more that I should have. I have been blessed and I am grateful that God put you in my path.You are the perfect spell caster i have never met,you can contact him with this email templeoflove1@gmail.com