Nene On Kandi: ‘Maybe I Should Have befriended Her So I Could Walk Around All Day With Balls Stuck In My Va Jay Jay!’

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December 5, 2012 ‐ By

Source: Bravo

So much for civility.

After Kandi cleared up all the  talk about her being jealous of Nene, and on top of that two-faced, I really thought the gloves might come off and these two ladies would be able to respectfully agree to disagree on their lifestyles. But, no such chance. In fact, I think Nene may have just upped the animosity between her and her Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member with a post she recently published on her Bravo TV blog.

Speaking on some of the things that went down in Sunday night’s episode, Nene surprisingly had more negative things to say about Kandi than Kim. She wrote:

There are things that were shown in this episode that I don’t agree with. Kandi speaks negatively about me once again: lies can sometimes be damaging! Kandi has no idea who my friends are other than Cynthia, what business relationships I have, and to be honest, she doesn’t even know me that well. It’s simply human nature for two people to meet one another and not really click, but let’s not speak about things we truly have no knowledge of! Kandi can’t name one person I’ve ever befriended for a reason, because there are none. I’m the type of lady that doesn’t look for friendship. If one develops, then I welcome it. Kandi loves to say she’s been in the business for 19 years and has accomplished so much. I wonder why I didn’t befriend her. Kim befriended her for a song! Maybe I should have befriended her so I could walk around all day with balls stuck in my vagina!

Well alright.

In case you’re having a slow moment like I did when I first read that last line, Nene is referring to her cast member’s Bedroom Kandi balls of orgasmic pleasure.

I mean dang Nene, you may not like Kandi but that doesn’t mean she isn’t a real business woman who actually has been getting money since before anyone cared about Atlanta housewives or Bravo TV. Also, by Nene’s own admission that she doesn’t look for friendship and only welcomes ones that develop, I’m thinking Kandi has never been interested in trying to develop a friendship with her, and that is why these two aren’t cool. Come to think about it, who is Nene friends with besides Cynthia who would lick the dirt off her boots if she asked her to. It’s interesting Nene wouldn’t befriend a fellow business woman like Kandi but she and Marlo were two peas in a pod last season. Speaking of? Where is that ex-con?

What do you think about Nene’s response to Kandi?

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  • misskaywill

    Last season, Kandi said how she had respect for NeNe for her hustle(spoke mostly positive things). Then NeNe comes on the reunion and accuses everyone ESPECIALLY Kandi of being jealous. I like NeNe but Im with Kandi on this one.

    By the way Kegeling/ the use of Kegel balls although a sex toy are actually beneficial for women. It helps with urinary incontinence therefor decreasing ones chances of having to wear adult diaper. Don’t judge Kandi cuz she an open freak(most of y’all trying to buy her products on the low). Her vgainal muscles will be stronger when she gets older….

  • Dawson

    All I got to say is I have CDs with Kandi on them and always felt she is standing on her own. She has a real talent and business sense. After RHOA is discontinued, let’s see if Nene is still relevant. That’s why she want leave show!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Tiffanie-MadameGigglez-Thomas/665285721 Tiffanie MadameGigglez Thomas

    Hush u loud mouth heifer, dang just fussin to that old ash man of yours cause he the only one who will listen to her negative behind. *Rolls eyes*

  • stillJUICYbaby!

    Sex sales. yall can’t say that the balls in the coochie didn’t peak your interest. Lol. and that’s why kandi will remain the real rich bitch..whomp

  • http://www.facebook.com/brandon.hallme Brandon Hall

    NeNe didn’t say anything negative about Kandi. She basically said, Kandi doesn’t know her. And NeNe is right. They never gave each other a chance. Kim took money out her mouth (Tardy For The Party) and she was still trying to be cool with her. But NeNe she doesn’t get along with, even when NeNe tries. Sometimes people don’t click but damn this article is basis as hell because NeNe never said anything negative about her in her blog. She stated her truth. Sad that we choose to attack the Black women on the show , but let Kim get away with murder and lies, so then she can use the other woman on the show to make her star rise.

    • Fiedah

      Nene has never tried to really be Kandi’s friend. She came at Kandi sideways from day 1 and Kandi has always stood up to her punk azz. Nene just mad because Kandi got the kind of money she wants.

  • Tynetta

    NeNe wants to be in charge and has issues with anyone that does not follow her lead. Kandi does not need her to feel good about herself. I know NeNe from when she was don’t fake real estate deals. She is nothing.

    • UnwelcomedGuest1709

      She is obviously someone. She has a 2 shows and is successful. Run your resume.

      • Fiedah

        Who has 2 shows? To have 2 shows would mean that she’s producing something or starring in something. So who has 2 shows?

        • UnwelcomedGuest1709

          The Real Housewives of Atlanta, Glee, and The New Normal. Stars in all 3, and you?

          • Fiedah

            She stars in them? LOL You are special. Greg? Is that you?

            • UnwelcomedGuest1709

              Like wise

  • Dee

    NeNe likes to befriend people that will kiss the ground she walks on and will tell her she is the best thing since sliced bread (Cynthia). Once those friends have some backbone or stand up to her, the friendship ends (Kim, even though she is a crazy heifer, they got along as long as she agreed with NeNe). The friendship with Marlo went bye-bye because there could only be one HBIC. You can see that the people that are not really close to NeNe on the show are women with strong personality like hers. Yes, she befriends people for a reason, so they can worship her.

  • DoinMe

    I like Nene and Kandi, but I didn’t understand why Kandi said Nene has motives when she befriends someone. I don’t see that with her. I think she, like most people, bond with people she has something in common with. Marlo, Nene, and Cynthia like girly-girl stuff (fashion, hair, makeup, etc…) Kandi and Phaedra don’t fit that mold. They dress like grandmothers and their bond seems to be based in freaky sex stuff.

    • Fiedah

      Nene was friends with Kim first and she ran her. Then she became friends with Cynthia. She runs her. She became friends with Marlo because she knew Marlo was the one chick who would get with her big azz. Nene ain’t crazy!

    • Fiedah

      Nene was friends with Kim first and she ran her. Then she became friends with Cynthia. She runs her. She became friends with Marlo because she knew Marlo was the one chick who would get with her big azz. Nene ain’t crazy!

  • Royaltee27

    Um Brande obviously you’re very one-sided. No where in that statement did she say Kandi was not a real business woman. I agree with Nene Kandi never wanted to get to know her and she always have so much negativity to spew out about Nene but she never addressed the constant jabs thrown at her by Kim. So I agree Kandi is messy just like how she invited Kenya on a trip being planned by Cynthia when she knows Cynthia doesn’t care for Kenya…I used to like Kandi but now not so much she’s a hater.

    • Dee

      But we also have to remember this is a reality show. Kandi was probably asked by the producers to invite Kenya to the trip for some drama.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000002668808 Cynthia Temple

    And the jealousy that Ne Ne has for Kandi from season 2 continues………….I am so sick of this BIG AZZ BAMA. Ne Ne is like school on a Saturday…………… NO CLASS!

    • Fiedah

      Thank you! Nene mad because Kandi really is rich, bish!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1234751726 Wanda Pinckney Spencer

    I just want to say his, Kandi Bedroom toys are the BOMB, try it you wil like it. I did . Nene you are a hypocrite because pole dancing is what you have bragged about on the show.

    • UnwelcomedGuest1709

      Everyone has a past. Don’t you? The fact that she use to strip has nothing to do with the fact that she doesn’t like adult toys. You do and that’s all that matters. BLOOP!

      • Fiedah

        Ummmm, being a stripper is major! Don’t act like you’re too good when you used to take your clothes off for strangers!

        • UnwelcomedGuest1709

          So what if she WAS a stripper. Who are you or anyone else to judge? She doesn’t have to like sex toys. She has turned her life around. Kandi has never been a Housewife.

          • Fiedah

            She was a stripper. I don’t know if you are one or used to be one, but that’s one of the lowest things a woman can do right before selling her body for sex. I’d become a sex toy expert before I ever took my clothes off for money. Nene is still a country azz bish with no class who used to be a stripper. And she’s mad that Kandi got real money that she earned through talent, something Nene does not have. Well, not with her clothes on anyway. :)

            • UnwelcomedGuest1709

              Never been desperate enough to be a stripper. I’m done having this pointless conversation with you. Have a great day

      • Fiedah

        Ummmm, being a stripper is major! Don’t act like you’re too good when you used to take your clothes off for strangers!

  • UnwelcomedGuest1709

    Brande Victorian is obviously a Kandi supporter. Her writing is bias. Kandi speaks ill of people and stirs the pot constantly. NeNe has calmed down and changed. NeNe is an ex-stripper so what! That doesnt mean that she likes sex toys and what not. Kandi hasn’t risen above any drama.

    • pretty1908

      exactly some people aren’t into toys doesn’t make the saints or matyrs just meas that they aren’t into them

  • It’sMe

    Nene is very hypocritical. She likes to dish out the “shade” but not take it. Nene started the whole unpleasantness with Kandi on the 2nd season (it seemed as though Nene was threatened) and when Kandi still isn’t on her ish she wants to diss her. I’m sorry, but Nene started the path that they’re walking on now, you can’t get mad if the bad first impression that you set up still stays with Kandi. If I was Kandi I wouldn’t be friends with her either, and most people know that if you met someone who was (in)advertently insulting you, but then tried to be nice later, you know you’d keep them at arms length too.

    • http://www.facebook.com/brandon.hallme Brandon Hall

      The thing is, NeNe’s real friend (La Shawn) was fired to bring, a total stranger, Kandi on. You would feel some sort of way about your friend’s replacement. No it wasn’t right the jabs NeNe threw at Kandi, but Kandi let Kim use her and kept coming back for more punishment. But must keep NeNe at arms length when she is trying to change.

  • Haylee

    It is clear you are bias in this situation. Why can’t NeNe speak her mind and it is a problem or jealousness and Kandi speaks her mind and it is golden. NeNe does not have to befriend Kandi if she does not want to at least she was not fake and tried to use her like Kim did. Yet Kandi talks about NeNe just like NeNe has said things about Kandi. She looks better befriending NeNe than Kim who was suppose to be her friend and openly talked trash about Kandi. NeNe is jealous of Kandi why she is living her life and she is acting better on RHOA so some of yall need to stop leaving in the past everyone is not jealous of Kandi. So what she was a stipper she does not like sex toys she made that reference to make the point she does not have to befriend her just to use her. Some yall have a disllike for NeNe for what how she acts and that’s how she makes her money and the show is still going on. I do not see yall dogging anyone else and that Kendra needs to go sit down.

  • http://twitter.com/islam_voodoo Hasaan Kadaafi

    please stop using the word “Vajay jay”

  • Klondon

    This writer sounds very biased – NeNe is damn right … She tells it like it is. Kandi is only holding a grudge because Marlo called her out and she didn’t like the fact that NeNe and Marlo hit it off! Anyone stupid enough to still call Kim a friend after being robbed by her, needs their head checking!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ashlee.lalor Ashlee Lalor

    nene is a straight up hater!

    • Fiedah

      Yes. Kandi is the only one of the wives who really is rich. Nene loves money and Kandi got way more money than Nene will ever have!

    • Fiedah

      Yes. Kandi is the only one of the wives who really is rich. Nene loves money and Kandi got way more money than Nene will ever have!

  • Ms_Mara

    NeNe, you was laying it low and spreading it wide in the clubs for cash so don’t act like you’re so above sex toys now. lol Sex toys won’t appeal to everyone so if it’s not your thing, cool. But she definitely seems to have an issue with Kandi. It’s been obvious for a while.

    • Gucci_Princess24

      Lmao @ “Laying it low and spreading it wide”!

  • pretty1908

    NENE IS HILARIOUS ! but that kegel ball situation made me feel unconformtable

    • kierah

      I’m cool with my girlfriends, but I’m not about to offer them a complimentary set of Kegel balls. That is too too intimate. But Miss Southern Belle Phaedra didn’t seem to mind…