What Does He Want? A Black Man’s Wishlist

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December 3, 2012 ‐ By madamenoire

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From Single Black Male

I can’t be mad at Black women when they say that Black men don’t have a clue what they want. It’s hard even getting a straight answer out of a Black man on what he really wants out of a woman. It’s different for each of us. But at a very basic level, what’s on our wishlist? Well, is there even a such thing as a wishlist or do Black men find themselves in a position where we choose a type of relationship over the characteristics desired in that relationship? Let me run that back, are we more likely to want to be married or in a relationship than we are to have our wishlists satisfied? That may explain why some women are left scratching their heads when they see a man settle down into a relationship. Almost to say, “You said you wanted ‘A’ but you ended up with ‘B’? What gives?!”

On Dec 3rd, I’ll be joining an all-male panel in Washington, DC to discuss what’s on a  Black Man’s Wishlist. When it comes to relationships, no man’s wishlist will be the same as another man’s. Some men put “loyalty” at the top of their list, while other men put “good-sex” at the top of theirs. Regardless of how extravagant or simple the wishlist, there are some basics that should be on every man’s.

Read more at SingleBlackMale.org.

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  • York

    Wow. Lot of negative people here, I see. I wonder if the responses would have been the same if it was a woman announcing an all-woman panel….

  • chanela

    simple! light skin, long hair, and a big booty.

    or a 400lbs white woman will be perfect! LOL

    • Lucy

      Not only white, women, Spanish, Bi-racial, Middle Eastern and any other woman who is not black so they can give them all their money especially if they are business men, entertainers, athletes. Even they know some of them are gold diggers, but they will be laughing and giving them all their money. Plus they will be at their beck and call.

  • In All Honesty

    All BM want is peace and quiet and they are not gonna get it in this comment section.

    • http://twitter.com/bagaybon Bagay Bon

      You are spot on…

  • Alohilani

    Why, oh why does MN keep posting that misogynistic , patriarchal, double standards trash from that website here?

  • YepYep

    Who cares what they want? Stop bending over backward trying to figure out what they want. All they want is an endless stream of new p*ssy. No need for a panel discussion…you’re welcome.

    • http://twitter.com/bagaybon Bagay Bon

      You said that with no shame. And the sad part is you get highly rated for you rant. Now, how are you going to get what you want from a man if you don’t care enough to give him what he wants ( assuming you want a black man).

  • Dawnn

    Why bother wasting time attending this panel? Most men especially black men talk out of both sides of their mouth. They say one thing and do something else.