10 Things I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me About Locking My Hair

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November 29, 2012 ‐ By

That Starting Phase is no joke

As I alluded to earlier, the starting phase, the time before you hair has formed into locs is the most shocking, most unpleasant part of the experience. If someone had told me how… unbecoming this initial phase was going to be, I certainly would have waited longer to lock my hair and might not have done it at all. Now, everybody’s experience is different; but when I decided to lock my hair, I had just cut it so when my beautician spun me around after she had carefully coiled my hair, into what’s known as “starter locs” (aka two strand twists), the shrinkage was so real. I still thought I was cute…just a cute little boy. By the time I got used to the shrinkage, “the fuzzies” started to appear. Since my hair had not locked properly yet, the twists were constantly slipping and I’m sure several people thought I was just too lazy to retwist. (It took almost a full year before people realized I was locking my hair.) And that sad part about it was, for the first couple of months, I really couldn’t do anything about it. I had to wait for the beautician to even wash my hair, let alone retwist it. Sigh Thank God I got past that phase. Now, whenever a woman tells me she’s thinking about getting locs, I warn her by saying it’s not going to be easy; but if you can get through this phase, you’ll love it.

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  • Ella

    I wanna start my loc journey. Any suggestions for locticians in the Houston area?
    Thanks

  • Mrs A.

    Oh my! too true, I really despise being called Dread, Rasta, Firewoman. I’ve been contemplating taking them out already cause it’s just too much. Mine are for a season but I do enjoy the convenience. It’s been 4 months now and thank God my hair was already quite long in it’s natural state so i jumped the annoying height

  • Lex

    Dreadlocs are the traditional usually thick naturally grown locs in symbolism to Rastafarianism (no vanity, just letting the hair grow as will to start, no sections or manipulation just as it grows is as it grows etc) . Locs are the slimmer more uniformed version not in symbolism to Rastafarianism but just as nice natural fashion style started with manipulation i.e sections, coils, twists to achieve a specific style/look.
    That is the difference. That British calling them dreadful hence the name is nonsense, that’s not why they are called dreadlocs. I did love the article though bar the last page lol

  • TheOutSider

    Forgive me folks, but I have never liked how they looked.

  • Christan-Joy Demeritt

    I always say locing was the 2nd best hair decision I’ve ever made (going natural being 1st). However, I was so creative when I first started out with my short locs that I never had an ugly phase.

  • Ilka Missb

    Twisting my hair right now… Thanks for your input, I’ve been thinking about it for years but I was scared. I’ve been doing my ex’s for about 2 years now so I have a bit of experience. Thanks again for inspiring me!

  • Mary Aries White

    I love wearing my Lady Loc’s I wear them very Professional where you can see the parts in my hair. My hair is wash and condition and Palm twisted every three week and I keep my Loc’s oil and they give off a beautiful sheen they looks so alive . I also wear a silk scarf bag on my head every night to bed.I enjoy the compliments from all races of men. I will not trade my Black Power for nothing in the world. I thanks God that he showed be I can be black and beautiful without straight hair!!! Loving being me a Black woman wearing what God Bless me with!!!

  • Donnay

    I went natural in 2010 due to a series of bad hair tragedies. Any who best decision yet To go natural. And yes. In a few decades (I’m 27 in Nov) I plan to lock up my hair. I love the way the older women wear their gray locks. Locks are the essence of black. I love the idea of the endless possibilities

  • mainstreamisoverrated

    I wanted to lock my hair,but for the time it takes,I didn’t want to regret it. My fam was like…do it…do it…I decided just to do the natural thing without them. I like watching the yt videos anyway. I like watching the retwisting process and the different methods. I have sees some who were about to go crazy because the their scalp developing conditions. Good luck to the folks trying.

  • Dana

    One day I had my hand on the door knob about to go buy a perm. Cooler heads and a conversation with myself prevailed and I stuck through it. People compliment my locs now and I appreciate that commitment I made. I advise others when they ask about how involved it can be but if its really what you want go for it!!!

  • Jules

    I think locs are beautiful, but it kind of freaks me out the way people talk about it. It is like it is a cult…one that I have no desire to join. Wearers use phrases like “the process” and describe how it is a “mental” thing. Sheesh…it is hair. I’m not really sure what spiritual journey I want to go through on the outside, but it all just seems like a bit much. Let the comments commences in 5…4….3….2….

    • Choxlox

      Lol…I have had my locs for 5 years (natural for about 13). But it was not a spiritual thing. I just wanted to be me! No more perms or weaves, fake nail (I do miss those), and I never really did the makeup thing. I just wanted to be me…in my natural, God-given beauty; and it was the best hair decision for ME.

    • NewYorkBunny

      It’s because it literally is a process. Hair doesn’t lock overnight. It takes anywhere from 3 months to 2 years for hair to lock. That type of commitment does challenge the mind. During that time, the locer is learning a lot about caring for themselves the way they are naturally. Something a lot of people go their entire lifetime not knowing how to do. Self-discovery is a powerful thing. That’s why a lot of people feel so connected to their locs because it’s been somewhat of a gateway for them to understanding, accepting and loving themselves. For someone like me, I happened to already be on a spiritual journey, and I look back now and know that my journey led me to locs. But for others, it’s vice versa. Their locs were jus the beginning of a journey they didn’t expect to even embark on it. Of course, it’s not spiritual for everyone. For a lot of people, its just hair. But what I’ve noticed about those people is that they tend to miss out on a lot. Always waiting on the extraordinary. Don’t find beauty and knowledge in the little things in life.

  • Kelli

    I love my locs and sometimes look at the little ‘fro’s with envy, remembering the luxury of the fro, big or tiny. Thanks for the article! People need to remember that not everyones locs take the same upkeep. Experiment and get to know your hair. I get compliments often but rarely moisturize outside of retwisting, though I do co-wash every other wash. I love Black Castor Oil, and I refuse to use anything that becomes a solid at room temperature. I find that my hair can take on a dusty look that I associate with product build-up with solid oils/products. But I believe in doing my own hair and seeing my loctitian once a year; if that! Nine years this October, and loving it. Oh and Chesalocs is the truth, lol.

  • Minda

    I had locs for many years and now I don’t. Remember, locs are “dead” hair and that is why it is growing long. I didn’t like it after a while. To each his own. For some people, it is nice break from chemicals and processing though.

    • justhere

      All hair is dead…

    • Miss K

      Locs are “shed” hair follicles. Justhere is correct, all hair is “dead.” My locs are mid-back and I love how thick and healthy they are. Yes, “dead” hair can be healthy.

    • Mary Aries White

      I keep my Loc’s oil so my hair is very alive because I am not combing, pulling and putting chemical in it. In other words there is no wear and tears!!! Your hair is dead when you crack fry it with chemical to have white people straight hair!!! LOL

  • TeamMe

    The energy tip is so true!!! After I started getting my locs done by my current loctitian, my hair has grown ridiculously fast. My hair responds so well to her.

  • Natasha

    Love this post! I’ve been a loc wearer for almost 2.5 years (relaxer free for 5 years), and I do realize that this is the best decision that I’ve done not only for my hair, but also for my health. I like that one of the points that is TRUTH when doing your locs: make sure you have a stylist/loctitian who gets along with YOU and YOUR GOALS! That cannot be emphasized enough! And yes, Youtube definitely helped me to learn how to really deep clean my locs (baking soda and ACV, or ACV rinses…check it out!), and check out some really cool styles (shout out to Chescalocs!).

  • http://www.facebook.com/soils.minor Anita Baker Soils

    wow.. i better start moisturizing.. whats good to use out there?

    • Natasha

      I’ve gone through a lot of moisturizers and found myself mixing jojoba/olive oil and water, and spraying on both scalp and locs. Another one I’ve used is Coconut oil with Giovanni Direct Leave-In conditioner, after I wash my hair (the coconut oil helps seal in the conditioner). I tried to use oils with mineral oil, and all I ended up having was dry locs before the day was over. I hope this helps!

  • sweets

    I think everyone who has dreadlocks should research the “history of dreadlocks” there is an abundance information. Dreadlocks are not are definitely not dreadful

  • http://twitter.com/SassyPeaches_25 **Sassy Lil Star**

    I loved this post! My transition wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. I had the 2 strand twist and because my hair is so fine people didn’t realize I was growing locs for a good minute. A year later and lots of growth to the point I’m getting it styled and people still think its just “twists”. I’m in love with my locs and I think it is the best hair decision I’ve made!

  • Ce1999

    I do definitely agree that it depends on the person as far as treating your locs with products. I don’t use much in my hair outside of when twisting it and I don’t see a lot of breakage. I moisturize every now and then, but my primary concern is being buildup-free and not making my scalp all itchy. To each his or her own though. I also consider locking my best hair decision. :-)

    • Tamz

      I use Taliah Waajid products on my hair and there is another line that I use that has mango and lime to moisturize my locs. My locs can get incredibly dry.

  • Denise

    I learned that you can wash your hair as often as you like and you don’t have to retwist every time you wash. I didn’t retwist for about a month and found styles that made my hair look neat and professional

    • ona2684

      HOW?!? I find myself washing and retwisting at least once a week and it takes me 3-4 hours each time. My scalp has also been pretty itchy as of late as well…

      • sweetdea

        Apple cider vinegar. Rub it on your scalp before you wash your hair.

        • michael

          What does that do

          • Sasha

            works magic by restoring the ph balance of the hair. helps with dandruff treatments too

  • Tamz

    Yaaaaaassss!! Thank you so much for this article!! I am a loc head also and I started my locs with comb twists. I went through that ugly phase that I thought was going to last FOREVER. 2.5 years later, best decision I’ve ever made. YouTube is my best friend also!! #LocsRock

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