Remembering your mistakes
Of course you’ve done stupid things in love. You’ve ignored the signs that a guy was cheating on you, or signs that indicated that he was never going to commit, or was extremely selfish or even gay. But who hasn’t?! True intelligence can only come after moments of true stupidity. So stop focusing on those moments when you were blind, and focus on how, in the future, you’ll recognize when you’re stumbling into those same situations, and how you’ll avoid making the same mistake. If you keep reminiscing about your moments of fault, you’ll feel helpless in the face of new relationships.