‘We Were Not Apart Or Separated’: Mashonda Addresses Alicia Key’s JET Interview

November 21st, 2012 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers

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Last week, we reported on an interview done by Jet Magazine in which Alicia Keys addressed allegations made against her that implied she was romantically involved with her now husband, Swizz Beatz, while he was still married to ex-wife Mashonda and that she was indeed a key factor in the demise of his marriage. In the interview, Alicia claimed the allegations were not true and even took a slight stab at Mashonda insinuating that she was simply looking to “knock” her down, saying:

[They] were apart for some time before we ever got together…that doesn’t matter to those who take pleasure in trying to knock others down…there’s no need to fight what’s not true…

Many waited to see if Mashonda would respond to Alicia’s claims considering the fact that she was very adamant about telling her side of the story when news of the alleged affair and the divorce first broke. It appears that their waiting has not been in vain as Mashonda recently discussed  the statements made by Alicia in an interview with Global Grind. Here is some of what she had to say:

Her first reaction to Alicia’s interview

Not much surprises me anymore when it comes to this situation. I truly thought that everyone’s priority was the well being of the children involved. I don’t see the sense in throwing oil on a fire, it just takes us back to point A. The Jet interview just added insult to injury. I can’t figure out how this makes us better. How is it a positive, humanitarian gesture? But artists must protect their reputation and I get that.

Whether she and Swizz were together when he hooked up with Alicia

There have been many stabs and shots taken, thankfully they don’t bother me the way they used to. I’ve never lied about one thing involving the demise of my marriage. No, we were not “apart” or separated, and that’s just a fact that can be proven in many ways. Blessings have a way of disguising themselves. This situation has helped me to understand life and what really matters.

How she’s been affected by Swizz’s infidelity

There is a level of humiliation and criticism that the average person wouldn’t be able to conceive, it really altered my life, but gave me a super thick skin. It’s been a rollercoaster ride. I’ve lost weight, gained weight, lost some hair and almost lost hope and mental focus. For months I saw a therapist because I needed someone to assist me in putting the pieces back together. There was a lot of stress and pain, it’s been challenging. I’ve found ways to cope and not get consumed in a dark space. You have to take care of yourself and move forward. In my case, I have a child and live for him. I have a purpose and I won’t give up on it.

We all thought this entire situation was over, but it seems that Alicia’s interview may have re-opened some old wounds. Now, I’m no Olivia Pope, but something in my gut tells me Mashonda is the truthful party in this whole fiasco; however, the only person who should rightfully have to bear the title of “homewrecker” is Swizz and he seems to be the one saying the least.

Do you think Mashonda should have responded to Alicia?

Jazmine Denise is a writer living in New York. Follow her on Twitter @jazminedenise

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  • shame on you

    what a lady Mashondal is by taking the high road ms, Keys should have done the same…then maybe she would get her ”SWAGG” back …and your man is a coward…

  • bullheadedtaurus

    Let’s just be real. If Alicia was not as successful as she is, this would not be news. Mashonda has said repeatedly that they were still married, not separated so why say it again? WE GET IT! Bottom line, the Crow from the Wiz (Swizz) should be answering all these questions and shutting this mess down. Ugh…they both should be slapped for getting with him. He is no prize to be fought over.

  • Vee Mack

    I do not believe her, she wants to believe they were together,because she wants to continue to blame the new wife. Instead she needs to put all blame on Swizz. Fact is her marriage was damaged and he had left, he met someone else and moved on. She could not accept that, listen if Alicia had an affair with her husband while married and she can prove it, then why not sue Alicia tor alienation of affection? Alicia is rich, if true Mashonda could make a lot of money. Because it is not true, she should stop commenting because Alicia is no longer the girlfriend but she is his wife and mother of his child. And I hope they have lots more.

  • guest

    Who cares!!!!

  • SunshineBlossom

    I may not get many likes for this but… Things happen! There is a reason their marriage didn’t work that we may not know about. No one knows what situation they will be in or what may happen. Now it is a bad situation, and clearly someone is not telling the truth BUT they are not together anymore and they need to let it go now! There are women who go through this everyday but don’t get a magazine to tell their story. What do they do? Move on.

  • vaya con dios

    No she should have not responded. She should have not depended on this one man to be her savior. Let it go.Depend on self and never put your all into a man, no matter what. Not saying not to love but this type of dependency is not worth dignity.

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