Defining Your Relationship: Where Do You Stand?

November 19, 2012  |  
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From Single Black Male

Traditionally, the holidays are filled with presents, joy, good food, family, and harmony and good will among your fellow man and woman. It’s a time of year when the welcoming warmth of a bed heated by the body of a significant other is a welcome break from the seasonal chill from outside. Yes, for many people around the world the holidays are a wonderful, almost magical time of year!

However, the holidays aren’t all peaches, cream, and eggnog for everyone. There is another group of people for which the holidays is filled with sleepless nights, angst, and tangled webs of deceitful text messages and pre-planned social media updates. Who are these people you ask?


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  • Diced Pineapples

    Wasn’t able to spend thanksgiving with my bf because we had an argument yesterday? I was the bigger person to text him today..So basically we’re small talking (texting) Do you think he should have still invited me over?


    Dunno where you stand, start walking/running!!

  • afroveda

    “When you’re in a relationship, you make time. When you’re in a pseudo-relationship, you make excuses.”
    You better PREACH!!!

  • Chere

    I’m actually excited for this Thanksgiving. Its me & my Honey’s anniversary & hrs spending this holiday with my family. We’re even traveling out of state to visit other relatives. My family says this is A HUGE STEP & says a lot about the direction of our relationship! Needless to say, I’m excited! 🙂