Why Did He Stop Calling? Maybe Because Of One Of These Reasons

2. You Pull Out All of Your “Tricks” Too Soon

Okay, so you’re about to have sex for the first time with your new guy and you’re ready. You break out the lingerie, the adult videos, the toys, the duct tape, the handcuffs and a whip – all so you can put it on him! But this might freak him out. While some men will appreciate a woman who can and WILL pull out all the stops for their first rendezvous, others might be creeped out thinking she’s a freak with every man she’s had sex with – and he may estimate that to be a high number given her “experience.” This isn’t fair, and probably immature – but some men want to believe that there are some things you haven’t done that he can “teach” you. If you give him everything too soon, he may think there’s nothing left worth coming back for. Leave some things to the imagination, and play to his ego a little bit. No need to show him all your tricks upfront – give him something to look forward to.