Be Cool, Baby: 14 Things Women Think They Have To Do To Impress Men, But Don’t

November 15, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin
"Couple flirting in the park pf"

We’re already working so hard to find men/impress men/get men to commit/keep men. We don’t need any more work on our plate as it is. So please, stop wasting your energy on these things that men don’t even notice, or worse yet, don’t want!

"Couple flirting pf"

Agreeing with him all the time

Men (the ones that aren’t narcissistic) can’t stand a woman that agrees with everything they say. When he asks you where you want to have dinner, it’s because he genuinely wants to know (so don’t say, “wherever you want to go”)! When he picks at you about something, he wants you to fight back! A man can tell immediately when a woman is just agreeing to appease him, or make him like her. And it’s a turn off.

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  • The advertisements are so annoying….

  • subbie_333

    “Come see my man play guitar at the local bar!” tonight Facebook post is sweet

    Does this site have story editors?

  • subbie_333

    “You know what will bother your man even more than that part of your hair that sticks up? You going through the most to fix it.”

    Huh what?

  • subbie_333

    “Women feel disrespected if people don’t make a whole to-do over
    their birthday. Men feel shocked if someone puts a cupcake on their
    desk. So don’t go beyond your means, financially or otherwise, to buy
    him a gift. It will make him more uncomfortable than it will happy and
    make him think he’s got to do the same to make you happy on every
    holiday. An expensive gift puts a lot of pressure on a man to do
    something just as big for you in return.”
    So, women expect a fuss, men don’t expect a fuss, so, don’t make a fuss about him cus it would only make him think he has to make a fuss about you. Wait, I thought women expect a fuss

  • jsmith

    Knowing how to cook is definitely a major turn-on.

    I don’t expect a home-cooked meal every day after I get back from work, but it’s a great life skill that shows the woman is mature and can take care of herself.

  • apark

    This is probably the dumbest list I have ever seen. I’m a 43 year old married man with 4 kids. I don’t think that a woman should ever stop trying to impress her man with lengerie, foreplay, or for God’s sake shaving. Men should not give up on their apperance or things like that either. If you want a relationship that will stand the test of time then do the things you did when your relationship was new. Dress nice, shave, open doors for her and ladies keep doing ALL the things that made him fall in love with you in the first place. 😉

  • italianostaliano

    No fricken…uh..chicken. You nailed it. Except for the lingerie maybe lol

  • having the perfect body. if you have a little extra tummy don’t get all in your mind that your fat and disgusting…. STOP IT!

  • ANTMilf

    You forgot trying to have a fake butt like Kim Kardashian or Nicki Minaj, I was at a train station with my friend and she said her man told her that he wishes she has a bigger butt. I told her that if her man doesn’t accept her for who she is inside AND out, dump him. She’s a beautiful, smart, down-to-earth woman and she deserves better than that.

    • MLS2698

      Uhh! She should tell him what SHE wishes was bigger on HIM!