No Words: Toddler Finds Condom, Puts It In Her Mouth, Condom Tests Positive For Gonorrhea, Mom Sues

October 31st, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

 

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There are lots of things mothers have to be concerned about with young children, but a 3-year-old potentially contracting gonorrhea usually isn’t one of them. Unfortunately that’s the fear a Jacksonville, FL, mother is facing after he daughter found a condom on her daycare playground and did what any other toddler would do, put it in her mouth.

According to Local News 4 in Jacksonville:

This happened in December 2011 at the day care which is part of the Head Start program run by the Jacksonville Urban League on Ionia Street.  It is also the site of the city’s Robert F. Kennedy Community Center and Park.  This incident has resulted in an entire year’s worth of fear and worry for her mother that the child has a sexually transmitted disease or possibly HIV because the condom tested positive for gonorrhea and it can take up to a year for these kinds of diseases to show up.

The child’s mom, Tiesha Sanders, was there on the playground that day and saw what happened.  Now, she’s hired an attorney and plans to sue the Jacksonville Urban League because she says she wants to make sure other children won’t be exposed to the same danger that has changed her daughter’s life.

“I just really didn’t want that to happen to my baby,” said Sanders. “If it happens to my daughter, it can happen to yours.”

During an interview with Channel 4 anchor and reporter Adrienne Moore, Sanders cried while talking about that morning at the day care.  She says she brought her daughter there and watched as she ran toward the slide and a group of children.

“I lift up my head and I saw her put something in her mouth and I was like, ‘get that out of your mouth!’ And someone said see what she had in her mouth and that’s when I found out she had a condom in her mouth,” explained Sanders.

Sanders said she washed her daughter’s mouth out with water and then called the Centers for Disease Control.  After that, she took the toddler to the emergency room where the little girl was checked out and the condom was tested. Medical records show the 3-year-old was put through a series of rectal, vaginal, and throat exams which are repeated every four months so doctors can rule out the possibility of HIV and other STDs which may take up to a year to show up.

Meanwhile, it appears this situation was an accident waiting to happen given details uncovered in News 4′s investigation.

According to Florida’s Administrative Code for Childcare Standards, a facility’s outdoor play area “…shall be clean, free from litter, nails, glass and other hazards…” also “…fenced to prevent access by children to all water hazards…” and “…free from toxic substances and hazardous materials.”

The incident that occurred with Sanders’ daughter was never reported to the Department of Children and Families.  And, according to the Jacksonville Sheriff’s Office, no police report was ever filed.  In fact, neither agency knew about the incident until Channel 4 started investigating.  However, DCF tells us the day care was not required to report it.

“We certainly recognize the concern parents would have about an incident like this. We inspect childcare facilities at least three times a year,” said John Harrell with the Department of Children and Families.

Harrell says DCF has cited this Ionia Street day care facility five times for unrelated, minor violations in the last two years.

“There was a health exam where the child’s shot record had been expired, and there was information that was missing on a child’s enrollment form, and finally on a playground there was some rusty chains noted on a swing on this playground,” said Harrell as he explained the previous citations.

Once Channel 4 notified DCF and started asking questions about how a major incident like this could happen, DCF’s Childcare Licensing Department launched an investigation into this case.  It found the facility was not in compliance with Florida code the day this happened and was cited for posing “…a threat to the health, safety or well-being of the children due to the presence of hazardous items.”

Despite this citation, the day care will not be fined this time.  Channel 4 is told it’s because this violation is a first offense.  But, if it gets similar violations in the next two years, the facility could face a $50 fine, an amount set by the state.

I can’t see a $50 fine being much of an incentive for the Urban League to clean up its act, literally, but a hefty lawsuit just might. Condoms on the playground are definitely not a good look.

Do you think this mom has a case?

*Photo courtesy of Shutterstock.

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  • Candacey Doris

    If the child gets a disease she definitely has a case. In the meantime, i hope she enrolled the hil elsewhere.

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  • Nikki

    WOW! That’s horrible and disgusting! At least it’s curable; however, I don’t know how medicine that was made for adults will affect a 3 year old.

    • Reese

      A lot of antibiotics you can give adults would be fatal to children.

  • http://www.facebook.com/lisafelicia.mcwright Lisa-Felicia Mc Wright

    Though I feel for this toddler in question However the parent was present at the time of the incident. At that time who was responsible for the welfare of the child? The Mother? The Center? Or Both? The lawyer(s) that take this case will surely have to prove that the Center was in fact the care provider at the moment the incident occurred. There will have to be a base for negligence established/determined etc. This will be a very tough case to prove. No police report filed. No call to the Dept of F & C Services. I’ll just wait to hear more information on this case because as far as i can see there is NO case, thus far.

    • Shirl

      Couldn’t agree more with your post!! You hit the nail in the head.

    • Nobueno

      I think its a matter of where did it happen vs who should have been watching the child.It happened at the property of the Daycare which is their responsibility to keep the grounds cleaned.I see the parent having a case, its like if you were to slip and fall at your job.

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Malaika-Angel/100000835938433 Malaika Angel

        While is it the responsibility of the school to make sure children are playing in a safe environment, it’s also the responsibility of whomever is watching the children to WATCH them. If a child is supposed to be supervised, then supervise him/her.

    • guest510

      Once a child steps foot on their property, she becomes their responsibility. If that mother singed her child in, which I’m sure she had to do before going out on the playground, she is definitely their responsibility and they are liable for what ever happens to her. As a Head Start teacher, I can tell you that we have to complete safety check list before a child even steps foot outside. this apparently wasn’t done

  • MLS2698

    This incident stems from adults who think its exciting to have s-e-x in a park or playground; teens too. In my area, some teens were charged with trying to film a s-e-x act on a playground. Not kool.

    • Nikki

      Something must be in the water… What’s with sex tapes these days?

  • JaneDoe

    Throws up in mouth.. Yuck!!!!!

    Parents teach your babies not to pick up things off the floor.. Let alone put it in their mouth

    • ona2684

      Parents are always telling their children not too. 3 year olds do it all the time, little ones in general always do. It’s a form of learning for them. Let’s not go blaming the parents everytime an unfortunate accident happens. Hopefully the child comes out of this clean and healthy. How gross indeed and scary.

      • JaneDoe

        Here we go again.. I have a child so I know they put things in their mouths. All I said was parents teach them. Who said I was blaming anyone? You can teach children and grown ups all day long. It doesn’t mean they are going to do it.

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/Malaika-Angel/100000835938433 Malaika Angel

          Children at such a young age cannot decipher what is/isn’t good to put in their mouths. I do believe in teaching them, but how can a 3 year old be taught what is good/not good to put into their mouths. That’s like teaching a child not to cry. It’s what they do since they cannot communicate like adults.

          No shade, just saying.

    • Kay

      Putting things in their mouth is a natural part of development. If a baby didn’t put things in their mouth to explore, it would be concerning

  • Reese

    OMG, as the parent of a toddler I know they will put anything in their mouth. My daughter ate a bug a few weeks ago. But a daycare especially needs to be cognizant of what’s on the ground surrounding their property. I just hope this little girl comes out STD free.

  • http://www.facebook.com/nikia.dshiznit Nikia D-Shiznit

    Actually, this is gross

    • Qtips_20

      yeah, almost vomited in my mouth.

  • C’mon son

    This is so scary. I’m not a parent, but it must be hella scary to think about what happens when you’re not with you’re child 24/7 and you don’t see everything. If the mom had not witnessed the incident, it’s unlikely anyone would have thought to take the child to the emergency room for tests.

  • SheBe

    MN why are my comments always awaiting a moderator when I don’t place anything bad in them? I commented and its still not up. Seriously?!

  • iluvm

    I’m lost for words! (mouth dropped)

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