8 Reasons to Date a White Man

September 27th, 2010 - By LaShaun Williams

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I am married to a Black man—dark-skinned, 100 percent cocoa. To me, there is nothing more physically beautiful on this earth. Notice I said physically. Outside of that, there are plenty of more financially, intellectually and emotionally stable options. It’s time to taste the unknown. There are just too many—too many bright and beautiful single Black women waiting for their Black prince charming, only to see more and more of them riding off with their porcelain-skinned beauties.

My question is what are you waiting for—a baby and no ring? Black men are obviously seeing a lot in others they like. As an open-minded woman, I can tell you from experience some things about white are right. In no particular order, here are the reasons you should be giving vanilla a chance.

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  • HighlyExplosive

    Black Men must really be messing up for someone to write an article like this…*Goes to watch worldstarhiphop.com*

    Ok, you win. Where can I find me a white guy…

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  • JosePizarro417

    Im never gonna date a black girl after reading this…

    • Keke

      You won’t be missed.

  • robertmarley

    she sees the white man as the master race.

    • AnnaLovesALot7

      yeah, she’s brainwashed/sick. i hope she gets better….

    • frank

      but…we are

  • Straza21

    Internalized racism isn’t doing you any favors.

  • Truthmom

    Unhappy white women aren’t a good indicator of white men sucking at all.. if that’s the case black men must be really failing miserably because black women aren’t happy at all LOL.

    You guys are just pissed this author (and many others of us) have gotten wise to whats up.  Didn’t you hear what they said on BBWives? #whitesright

  • Markvanslam

    As a white man I was interested in this because I love black women, or any race really. I think at times the author maybe oversells white men in general. I know of a lot of ignorant, insecure, uneducated white men of course (just turn on the radio if you dont believe me:) I dont doubt the authors experience, and I love reading about black women liking people like me…my fear is just that this piece will stroke the egos of white men, or even make racist whites feel vindicated.

    • AnnaLovesALot7

      Yeah, I really can’t believe some people buy into this racist crap. It’s really sad. Thank you for posting this response. I felt exactly the same upon reading it…

    • Canaan1

      I agree. Considering American history, These relationships are very interesting and are packed with all sorts of heavy baggage that this relational combinations rarely discuss and man even be able to discuss. The biggest issue is what to do about the attitude of the racist white male. We’ve never had a good conversation about “Monsters Ball.”

    • Canaan1

      I agree. Considering American history, These relationships are very interesting and are packed with all sorts of heavy baggage that this relational combination rarely discusses and may not even be able to discuss. The biggest issue is what to do about the attitude of the racist white male. We’ve never had a good conversation about “Monsters Ball.”

    • sinsin sin

      again very well said as a black woman that was precisely what went thr ough my mind. I would go so far as to say i found it a little disturbing. I have always dated whom i felt like but i did not care for the tone of this article at all.

    • http://twitter.com/HerDiamondback Nefer Iman

      Thank you for posting this. People should take caution in whoever they date. Sure there may be benefits to dating White men as the author mentioned, but you will also have a new set of problems -like what to do if his friends jokingly ask if you are wearing a weave. The perspective on this piece is flawed.

  • guest

    “i’m not anti-white, i’m pro-black.” politically correct.
    “i’m not anti-black, i’m pro-white.” racist.

  • Mixed Chick

    Can I just say: wow. Really? Ok I grew up in a very mixed household. And dated all colors. Even though I married a white man, I am still appalled by the stereotypical nature of this article. I actually laughed out loud. I think black men tend a little thicker skinned and cocky cuz that’s how mama raises a proud black man in our society. And white men I find tend to be curious about dating black women but are sometimes too shy to holla. It’s all about what you like though. No type is better in the general sense man. It’s all strokes for different folks. The writer must have been giggling writing this, cuz it’s pretty silly.

  • Mixed Chick

    Can I just say: wow. Really? Ok I grew up in a very mixed household. And dated all colors. Even though I married a white man, I am still appalled by the stereotypical nature of this article. I actually laughed out loud. I think black men tend a little thicker skinned and cocky cuz that’s how mama raises a proud black man in our society. And white men I find tend to be curious about dating black women but are sometimes too shy to holla. It’s all about what you like though. No type is better in the general sense man. It’s all strokes for different folks. The writer must have been giggling writing this, cuz it’s pretty silly.

  • cha-city man

    I tend to date mostly white and Asian women, but it still bothers me to see black women dating non-black guys. I don’t think this is unfair either, you have to look at the science of the situation. Men can have a lot of babies with a lot of different women, but women can only have one child at a time, and only a couple throughout her lifetime. Because of this, it is more important for black women to be faithful to black men then it is for black men to be faithful to black women. We have to keep our numbers up. I can have sex with white and Asian women, but I still go and have a baby with a black woman, so it does not negatively effect our people. But if a black woman gets pregnant by a white boy, then she is done, she can no longer give birth to proud strong beautiful black babies. Sorry if this sounds sexist, but that is the truth of the situation.

    • Mixed Chick

      You GOT to be joking. I’m going to assume your post is to rile up the crowd. You cannot actually believe this

      • Regina Usana

         WHAT crowd, this article is 2 years old, dumbass.

        • Spacebunny_81

          So you agree with him? Just say that instead of being ignorant.

    • HighlyExplosive

      Thank you for showing exactly why black women need to start dating outside of their race. Lord help us if we make anymore asshats like you…

      • MissRealuminatti

        He make me not want to ever give birth to another black male. lol

    • AnnaLovesALot7

      As a black women, this is very offense. First of all: Yes, i could go have a white baby and then turn around and make beautiful black ones. Secondly, who’s business is it either way whether or not I do? There are approximately 7 billion men and women on earth and we’re in no specific need to reproduce at this time.

      Furthermore, why should Black women be “faithful” to black men when most Black men have not been faithful to us? The mutual disrespect has exhausted itself so both black men and women (and white and asian men and women for that matter), have branched out, realizing it’s not about color, finally).

      Moreover, it’s going to continue to happen (evolution). In the Us, we are going to soon be mostly mixed and “full” blacks, whites and asians will be the “rare” ones except in their ancestors countries.

      Wake up and smell the reality (mmm mmm :d) <3

    • iHeartMarijuana

      This is ugly and offensive to White, Asian and Black women. Just because men can have babies with a bunch of women doesn’t mean it’s not disgusting and it doesn’t make it acceptable. Women cannot be “faithful” to more than one person – you are not “faithful” to an entire race of men. Having mixed children does not negatively affect “your” people. Black women do not die when impregnated by White men. What you’re saying doesn’t sound sexist, it sounds gross and diseased.

    • MissRealuminatti

      Stop drinking the entitlement kool-aid on Mars and come back down to planet Earth. lol

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002442264776 J Pedro Veiga

    “Promiscuous Black men think they deserve to settle down with virgins,
    and allow past relationships to haunt the present. Not White men. They
    have no problem turning a hoe into a housewife.”

    THIS IS SUCH A BLATANT LIE. I AM A WHITE MAN AND I WOULD NEVER EVER BUT EVER EVER GIVE ANY ATTENTION TO A WOMAN WITH A SLU**Y PAST.

    NO SELF-RESPECTING MAN, WHITE OR BLACK, WOULD DO THAT.

    I AM NOT A TOUCHY-FEELY LIBERAL BUT THIS ARTICLE IS AN INSULT TO BLACK MEN. AND, TO AN EXTENT, WHITE MEN.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/BVBJJ2LIHXHKHMDRRLMJ6SEXWQ teresa

    i am agree totally and more, the only apology, not have done it before, i am a very happy woman ,he appreciate my level of intelligence and my independent mind.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/BVBJJ2LIHXHKHMDRRLMJ6SEXWQ teresa

    TOTALLY AGREE, I AM DATING A WHITE GENTLEMAN , THE ONLY APOLOGY I HAVE IS NOT HAVE IT DONE BEFORE, I AM A HAPPY WOMAN 

  • MichelleAndAll

    Once I started dating white men, I never went back to black men again. Life is to short not to experiment. You never know what your missing.

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