8 Reasons to Date a White Man

September 27th, 2010 - By LaShaun Williams

8. Don’t take everything as a challenge to their masculinity

Intimidation and insecurity are two reasons for the rift between Black men and women. As a result of their insecurities and low self-esteem, Black men are intimidated by the strength of an educated and ambitious Black woman. Rather than seeing her as a strong teammate, she is a threat to their manhood. Thus, they feel the need to overcompensate. White men, on the other hand, are more secure. What Black men see as threatening is what makes a great wife and business partner to them. Do you agree?

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  • Maria

    This is so racist! I can’t believe You would allow this s.itty piece of garbage to go online.
    Just imagine the commotion if all the “white man” was swapped with “black man”.

  • IMJSANYUmad

    Madam Noire does what ever she can to put down the black man. Everything is done in a psychological way to strip the black man of his masculinity and uplift black women to continue to dump on black men

  • ash

    I have to say this article is very, very generalizing towards black men. People are people, whether they drop out of college, or have babies outside of marriage or whatever else they’re claiming that “all black men do”. Last time I checked, all types of men do these things to a certain extent and that simply depends on what kind of person you are, not traits that are strictly limited to your skin color. But anyways, with that being said, I do find that a lot of black women are scared sometimes to get out there and try something new. If your attracted to only black men that that’s cool but I just find that love is hard to come by these days. So, if you meet someone who likes you and treats you right, no matter what color they are, don’t be afraid to step out the box and go for it.

  • KRB

    As a black female who is currently dating a white male, I find this completely disrespectful to both races. “White men go to school…white men attempt to marry before making babies.” Seriously? A nice, huge heaping handful of black men do too….this is ridiculous. I’ve seen a whole bunch of trifling white boys, too. Maybe this was actually supposed to be satire and it went over my head this time…..

  • Fuckthissite

    Im a young black male. I speak with intelligence and I own my own business. I’ve served my country and yea I didnt have a father but I didnt need him to know I dont wanna be like him. I dont have any babies and I can take care of myself. Highly offended. Check yourself.

  • http://debatesthatmatter.blogspot.com/ Tim

    From the way you sound, specially with the classy comment, usually means if the money ain’t right I am moving on. Kanye Voice: “Now, I ain’t saying she a gold digger, ‘But’…………” Yes indeed good luck too you/y’all!

  • http://debatesthatmatter.blogspot.com/ Tim

    Brother so would a lot of African American men, but The standards given out by white American as to how Black men and women here should relate to each other as oppose to how things were is all missed up. Frankly, I would love to have one of the 3 other choices in sistas you mentioned. At least they would give a brotha a chance to approach and respect them. I have date one of the 3 groups you mentioned and it’s was a great experience. Sound like you have a chance at a nice life man, you better hop on it!