8 Reasons to Date a White Man

September 27th, 2010 - By LaShaun Williams

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I am married to a Black man—dark-skinned, 100 percent cocoa. To me, there is nothing more physically beautiful on this earth. Notice I said physically. Outside of that, there are plenty of more financially, intellectually and emotionally stable options. It’s time to taste the unknown. There are just too many—too many bright and beautiful single Black women waiting for their Black prince charming, only to see more and more of them riding off with their porcelain-skinned beauties.

My question is what are you waiting for—a baby and no ring? Black men are obviously seeing a lot in others they like. As an open-minded woman, I can tell you from experience some things about white are right. In no particular order, here are the reasons you should be giving vanilla a chance.

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  • ash

    I have to say this article is very, very generalizing towards black men. People are people, whether they drop out of college, or have babies outside of marriage or whatever else they’re claiming that “all black men do”. Last time I checked, all types of men do these things to a certain extent and that simply depends on what kind of person you are, not traits that are strictly limited to your skin color. But anyways, with that being said, I do find that a lot of black women are scared sometimes to get out there and try something new. If your attracted to only black men that that’s cool but I just find that love is hard to come by these days. So, if you meet someone who likes you and treats you right, no matter what color they are, don’t be afraid to step out the box and go for it.

  • KRB

    As a black female who is currently dating a white male, I find this completely disrespectful to both races. “White men go to school…white men attempt to marry before making babies.” Seriously? A nice, huge heaping handful of black men do too….this is ridiculous. I’ve seen a whole bunch of trifling white boys, too. Maybe this was actually supposed to be satire and it went over my head this time…..

  • Fuckthissite

    Im a young black male. I speak with intelligence and I own my own business. I’ve served my country and yea I didnt have a father but I didnt need him to know I dont wanna be like him. I dont have any babies and I can take care of myself. Highly offended. Check yourself.

  • http://debatesthatmatter.blogspot.com/ Tim

    From the way you sound, specially with the classy comment, usually means if the money ain’t right I am moving on. Kanye Voice: “Now, I ain’t saying she a gold digger, ‘But’…………” Yes indeed good luck too you/y’all!

  • http://debatesthatmatter.blogspot.com/ Tim

    Brother so would a lot of African American men, but The standards given out by white American as to how Black men and women here should relate to each other as oppose to how things were is all missed up. Frankly, I would love to have one of the 3 other choices in sistas you mentioned. At least they would give a brotha a chance to approach and respect them. I have date one of the 3 groups you mentioned and it’s was a great experience. Sound like you have a chance at a nice life man, you better hop on it!