Girl, You’re How Old?! Why She’s 30 (or Older) and Still Not Married

6. She Simply Hasn’t Found Him yet

Sometimes we have to kiss a lot of frogs to find “our” Prince (note: not Prince Charming, just the man compatible for us) and if that means a woman doesn’t find him until she’s in her 30’s, then so be it. Just because a woman is single doesn’t mean she’s not looking for love. That’s something we all want at our core but it can be elusive at times and it just takes some of us longer. So what, she hasn’t met a man who does it for her yet? That’s fine. In the meantime, she has more time to sort through her issues, know herself better, and can do a better job at identifying compatibility with potential dates when she meets him – and certainly be better at it than when she was in her 20s. If anything, maybe finding her perfect mate will get easier as she gets older, because she hopes that her soul mate knows exactly what he wants in a partner too by the time she meets him. No time will be wasted, no games will be played and the both of them can get right to the business of building a great life together. But until then, she’s single by choice…and no woman at any age should have to explain herself.