Halle Speaks On Biracial Struggles And Love Troubles: “God Just Wanted To Mix Up My Life”

October 19th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Source: NY Times

Halle Berry doesn’t talk much about Halle, the biracial girl from Cleveland, OH, whose been labeled “crazy” for failings in love. We usually hear about the next movie she’s working on, how she stays forever young at 46, and maybe a thing or two about her being a parent. But in an interview with the NY Times, Ms. Berry is being very open about where she came from and who she’s become over the years, and even a bit about her custody battle with her ex-boyfriend Gabriel Aubry. Check out some of the highlights of the article as well as the gorgeous photos.

Why she’s made bad choices with men

“My picker’s broken. God just wanted to mix up my life. Maybe he was thinking, ‘This girl can’t get everything! I’m going to give her a broken picker.’ ”

 On Self-esteem not having anything to do with your looks

“Just because they see my face doesn’t mean they see me. A person’s self-esteem has nothing to do with how she looks.

“If it’s true that I’m beautiful, I’m proof of that. Self-esteem comes from who you have in your life. How you were raised. What you struggled with as a child.

“I always had to prove myself through my actions. Be a cheerleader. Be class president. Be the editor of the newspaper. It gave me a way to show who I was without being angry or violent. By the time I left school, I had a lot of tenacity. I’d turned things around.”

 The role her mother played in her development

“My mother helped me identify myself the way the world would identify me. Bloodlines didn’t matter as much as how I would be perceived

“My mother tried hard. But there was no substitute for having a black woman I could identify with, who could teach me about being black.”

 Being biracial

“Being biracial is sort of like being in a secret society. Most people I know of that mix have a real ability to be in a room with anyone, black or white.”

“I come from humble beginnings. I always felt like the underdog. Behind the eight ball. I learned not to be too high on the hog. Even that night I won the Oscar, I had a fundamental knowing, it was just a moment in time. Driving home that night, back to my house, I felt like Cinderella. I said, ‘When this night is over, I’m going back to who I was.’ And I did.”

Why she wants to leave America

“I can’t grow my daughter in L.A. You take a little child who is just trying to learn about the world and have all these people with cameras chasing after her, calling things out to her about her mother. It’s starting to make her feel special and different. I want her to feel special and different, but not for the reason of being my child.”

Source: NY Times

Source: NY Times

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  • Cindie

    Love Halle, don’t like the father. I think he’s racist. He doesn’t need to be around a black daughter….

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  • eestoomuch@aol.com

    crazier than a soup sammich.

  • Kayo Halana Malie

    Oh yea, out of all the problems in the world, ‘God’ had time to concern itself with Halle’s love life. Give me a flucking break.

  • Papillon

    O/T but…I was coveting her wardrobe in the photo shoot until I saw the prices…YIKES!

  • get real

    Can I just say that I will walk a mile in broken glass barefooted only to have this woman kick me in the face. Lol

  • gmarie

    I actually love her answer on leaving the states to raise Nala. First I thought it was to be difficult and try to “punish” the child’s father..but I understand completely. I wonder if that was one of the reasons Madonna decided to raise her children overseas (aside from wanting very badly to be a brit lol)

    • KJ23

      A few celebrities seem to move overseas for that. Like Johnny Depp. They say that other countries aren’t as obsessed with celebrities as North America is.

  • MLS2698

    I can’t grow my daughter…? What is she, a potted plant?

    • Kay

      Yes, a FICA. You didn’t know?

    • Rebecca

      LOL

    • Kayo Halana Malie

      Hahahah!

    • SMDH

      So, if she had said ‘raise’ instead of ‘grow’, you would have asked if the child was some sort of farm animal, huh? Sad.

      • MLS2698

        Lots of things can be raised. For instance, Halle can raise her career from the dead! But I have never heard the word ” grow ” being used in that manner. IDK, maybe its a Hollywood thing. * shrug *

  • Yvette

    Keep on keeping on Halle. Do you girl.

  • TRUTH IS

    Love her…a beautiful woman, a masterpiece but def has her issues (like bat chit crazy, I heard)

  • baddvixentype

    these pics look crazy.

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