Real Talk: Are You Too Crazy To Have A Relationship Right Now?

October 12th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
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Does every ex of yours avoid you like the plague? Do most of your breakups end with yelling, things breaking, and a borderline war? Are you incapable of an amicable split? If so, you might have some issues to work out before luring another victim into your web.

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  • Torontochick

    All of these clicks is going to make me change to Clutchmag!

  • phnx

    most of the time i just breeze by this kinda stuff on bossip, but I’m glad I stopped by this time, seeing these things in writing, have made it clear that some of these apply to me and my current relationship, I just wanna thank you guys for posting this, it may very well help me keep my relationship together….

  • treypeezy

    crazy is as crazy does.-TP of SISB

  • UnsungHipHop.Com

    This is funny….

  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    I don’t know. I don’t call everyone I’m friendly with my friend. So to me if a man says he has a female friend, I assume this is someone he spends time with regularly, talks to frequently, and shares his hopes, wishes and dreams with. Anything less than that means they are an acquaintance. I personally believe a straight man does not befriend a straight woman with the intentions of being her perfectly platonic friend. Therefore, he got put into the friend zone by her and he’s still holding on because he’s still attracted to, interested in, or in love with her.

    But maybe I have the definition of friend wrong.

  • SFDotNet

    You gotta be crazy to be in a relationship. That’s the only way it’s going to work.

    SF

  • L-Boogie

    Stay single. Cuts all the drama down.

    • L-Boogie

      I apologize for the double comment. It keeps making appear like I have not commented.

  • York

    The only one I don’t agree with is the last one. Change is therapeutic and sometimes a different thought process is exactly what you need to move on. IMO it’s unhealthy when you start changing things you had no problem with from the start.

  • diggy.p

    I will be honest. My breakups have never ended well. But I usually keep in contact with them and remain friends with them after some time has passed. We obviously split with good reason. Most of my ex boyfriends have cheated on me. But I don’t hold grudges. I let them see that I am perfectly fine, have moved on and am doing quite well.

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      That’s sad. You choose the same man over and over. Why you would want to keep in contact with someone who is a liar and cheater is puzzling. But good for you.

  • TRUTH IS

    Nope, doesn’t apply to me. No man has any power over me to drive me to therapy. Keep it moving!!

    • RJA

      That’s good for u, you’re very fortunate

    • L-Boogie

      Stay single.