- Be Honest
If you’re currently in a relationship, but have developed serious feelings for someone else, it’s important to be honest and tell your partner how you’re feeling. If you’ve cheated on your man already, it may be too late to salvage your relationship. But if you haven’t crossed that line yet, now is the time to re-evaluate the current state of your relationship and try to figure out what allowed you to fall for someone else in the first place. Have a serious talk about what is working, what isn’t working, how you both truly feel about each other and where you see the relationship going. Get it all out in the open. You both may gain some clarity as it pertains to the direction of your relationship and if it’s worth continuing. If it’s worth it, you may discover that the second person was simply someone you were looking to fill a void in your current relationship. But if you both don’t see the relationship going anywhere, now you can end it before things get too hectic and you wind up doing something you’ll regret – and you can pursue a relationship with the second person…guilt free.
If you are NOT in a committed relationship, be upfront by saying that you’re not ready for an exclusive relationship right now. But if both are demanding a commitment, and a commitment is what you ultimately want, you may need to act quickly. Just don’t make any grand declarations of love for either man until you sort it out.