Torn In Between The Two – Do I Really Want To Be With You? Go With Your Head…Or Your Heart

October 7th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean

 

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While we may not find ourselves in this predicament every day, it is quite possible to look up one day and discover that you have romantic feelings for two people at the same time. Even if you’re in a good relationship, a simple attraction for someone else might evolve into something more if you’re not careful. Being drawn to people other than your mate is normal, but acting on it if you are already in a committed relationship can take a crush to another level…leaving you feeling stuck and confused – and possibly hurting someone else in the process. If you don’t want to lose the person you’re with, it may be necessary to take a step back to try to understand the feelings you’re having. However, if you met two people at the same time and are having trouble choosing, here are some things to consider when sorting things out between your head…and your heart.

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  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    This must be geared towards really young women. I can see if you are a young woman dating two men at the same time. But building relationships to the point where you are trying to decide if one of them truly loves you. That’s childish game playing and you ought to walk away from both of them and do some growing up before wasting anyone else’s time and energy;

  • Miss Anonymous

    I would go with my head because going with my heart will gloss over many of his terrible flaws. Flaws as in “oh he forgot about my bday its okay”, “he cheated on me but Im his main so its okay”, “he never has money to go on dates and I always have to pay even though he spends $200 on his own shirts and jordans but its okay”. Your head can often see the red flags pop up but your heart feels that he will change overtime with the love of you being his good woman.

  • JaneDoe

    Thats a tough one.. The heart can leave you in bad situations. While the head can leave you in a unhappy/ loveless relationship or even alone. Sometimes…

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