Don’t Be Scaaaaared! 6 Ways to Approach a Guy

September 29th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean

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1. Simply Smile, Make Eye Contact…and/or Say Hello

Sometimes all a man needs to make the first move is to know that you’re interested or that you won’t read him the riot act if he steps to you. If you appear happy and approachable, men who find you attractive will probably feel more comfortable coming over and striking up a conversation with you. A flirty glance, a friendly smile or simply saying hello may be all that’s necessary to get him going, and he’ll take it from there. After all, who wants to talk to the girl with the gas face? Smile, be happy and men will want to get to know you.

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  • Kisses

    I was leaving a parking lot and locked eyes with a man who was driving in….he was so fine that we kept staring at each other as I put that bad boy in reverse, rolled down the window, and asked if I knew him! He still jokes about the tires squealing lol

  • hottatti

    i love this! i would have never met my future husband had i not approached him. we been together ever since! now we joke about it and i tell her “he got chose” LOL

  • Artscola

    Good advice! Women smile and stare, but when you approach they seem surprised that you thought they were interested. SMH

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/SYNZLAE7TVZXQT3JCSIIPLC26A David

    We’re usually the ones who are required to make the first move but our confidence does boost when a female makes the first move. It’s less work for me and less planning:)

  • Yeppers

    #6 is a NO dont let hos fix u up with a cute dude…I have been stabbed in the back waaaay too many times. If yall cant get it together yourself….DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT ASK FRIENDS TO HOOK YALL UP….

    • Negress

      My grandma always said, “Never let some one set you up. She can just as good as go with him. If she doesn’t want him, why not?” Is he her leftovers or almost was. Cut out the middle man.

    • Reese

      So true.

  • Yokessm

    Good article, ladies don’t be afraid to make the first move, as long as you don’t hand them your kitty and heart right away and let them prove themselves to you, you will be fine.

  • Reese

    Very good article, I have never approached a guy before. I’m a shy person, I said I’m going to try and step outside of my box.

  • Sabrina

    Great article :) I shall utilize some of these tips haha

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