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I got two very interesting questions from readers regarding cunnilingus. Here’s the first one. Peep my response and weigh in via the comments!
I have a great boyfriend. We’ve been together about six months and we’ve got a good thing going. Just one problem: he doesn’t perform oral sex. He says he just never has really done it and doesn’t like it, it makes him feel weird, etc. I go down on him…like, I go DOWN (That stuff you wrote about in your blow job posts? Yeah, I do that.) He doesn’t make me feel like I have to, but when I tell him that I think it’s unfair that I do and he doesn’t, he’ll say “Well, you LIKE doing it.”
I don’t feel completely satisfied by our sexual relationship. The intercourse and foreplay are cool…but I’m breaking my neck to give the perfect blow job and I can’t get a little tongue action in response? I don’t know what to do.