My Goodies, Not My Goodies: Reasons You Should NOT Give Up the Cookie

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Let’s face it, most relationships are complex enough, so adding sex to the mix may only complicate matters. One night stands, sex too early, sex too late, with the wrong guy, the wrong woman, etc. can just make your life more hectic than it needs to be. If you’re in between relationships, consider celibacy so that you can focus on doing things that you want to do for yourself. Sex in complicated relationships can make you feel vulnerable and out of control. Take this time to focus on peace of mind and freedom to spoil yourself instead of becoming a clingy, stalking crazy person because you messed around and caught feelings with a dude you gave up the cookie too soon. Instead, work out, hang out with your girls, pamper yourself and love yourself literally. After all, pleasuring yourself will not lead to pregnancy, contracting an STD or feelings of guilt or shame. And when you’re finally ready to have sex, you’ll have a better understanding, and appreciation for what brings you pleasure. Win-win!

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