Secret Lovers Divorce Pact Gone Wrong: I Filed, He Didn’t

September 18th, 2012 - By madamenoire

Dear Gay Best Friend,

I’m in a relationship with this guy. We’ve been together for 6 years. Living together for a year. My problem is we were both married up until May. That’s when I got my divorce. We were supposed to be getting divorces at the same time. I did, however, he didn’t. Every time I bring the subject up it’s an argument and I’m wrong. I’m thinking about just picking up and leaving. I’m 45-years old and I feel like I’m wasting my time. But, 6 years is a lot of time invested. Should I pick up and leave? – Tired Of Waiting

See what everybody’s favorite gay best friend has to say about this situation on Hello Beautiful.

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IKeepIt100%

A fool at 40 is a fool for Life. If him being divorced was a priority, she shoulda established that 6 years ago. She was desperate and pathetic at 34; and has clearly only gotten worse with Time. (Sighing). When will our sistahs learn!?
IllyPhilly

Salty!!!
Adrina

45 and you don’t have better sense than this? Smh
Gimmeabreak78

This woman is mildly retarded. Is she seriously upset that her married lover is not willing to abandon his marriage to marry his sidepiece?
Gye Nyame

This woman needs her head checked.
Shebe

The answer that the “gay best friend” gave was on point.
Dont Worry, Be Happy

dummy.
- JaneDoe
  
  LMAO @ her
redfingerpaint

Had an affair for 6 years?

How you get them is how you lose them…
- Miss Anonymous
  
  They are both married to other people and where sexing each other. She is now feeling bad because they were to divorce their own so’s for each other? I think she should just take that L because obviously she was sprung over him and he had no intentions of leaving his wife.