When Are You Going To Lose That Baby Weight? & Other Things You Shouldn’t Say To Your Mommy Friends
When I have kids I’m going to…
No matter what you do there’s going to be a freaking armchair coach who’s going to say: “I could have done that better,” and it’s always annoying. Everyone’s always an expert and saying what they would have done better. But it begins to get hurtful when you have a child, and the person who’s criticizing you only babysat… ten years ago.
People can always say what they’re going to do, but it’s a whole different ball game when you’re experiencing it. You don’t know what that mother is going through. Though you might not agree with how your friend is handling their child (as long as it’s not in a harmful way), and you know your way is 100 times better, criticizing and talking about your fictitious children is only aggravating her.
