How To Have A Successful Threesome In A Relationship

September 18th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
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Why do it?

So you’ve been with your man for a long time. Maybe you have kids and busy jobs and sex happens once every few weeks while you’re waiting for your laundry. You know each other so thoroughly—you’ve bought one another Pepto-Bismol and Spanx—that seeing the other person as a sexual object is nearly impossible. There is no mystery left there. You’ve lost a sense of your own identity as an individual and just feel like the other half of this safe, bland relationship. If this is your situation, this is where a threesome may come in handy.

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  • http://www.dittymac.blogspot.com/ Virginia Llorca

    You don’t discuss bringing in another guy. Another chick would not interest “some”.You asked on my disqus if I tried it. I can’t even carry it off in my naughtiest fiction. And the Segway thing hit me too. Sex on one of those funny new bikes?

  • taz

    I wonder if your man will be so willing if u wanted a man to join…using the same reasons listed above. Woman do too much for men but them men wouldn’t do half for you

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_LBSPSV27VXWMQ62NT7IIYVKWD4 NaomiH

    Had a friend who tried it and it ruined her relationship she left her man for the woman.

  • Bubbah

    HIRE INTELLIGENT PEOPLE THAT READ AND ARE NOT TOO PROUD TO USE THE DICTIONARY!! THE CORRECT SPELLING (SEGWAY) IS S-E-G-U-E.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

    It can work. I’ve had one before. The key is communication. And make sure eveyone is on the same page. Try not to pick someone that isnt more sexuallexperienced then you or your man. Lol

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

      Sexually experienced*

  • Josiane

    This article must be written by a man since it only talks about bringing another women. What about bringing another man into your bedroom with your man?

    • http://www.facebook.com/cassquervo Damon Wilson

      I just threw up a litttle bit in my mouth. -_-

  • Kay

    OH… And we wonder why people steryotypicsl black women …

  • get real

    Every man’s fantasy. “No, not my man” .Yes self righteous woman, yours too.

    • Adrina

      i agree with this lol. Women have fantasies too that some men can’t believe either, but hell, I think they’re willing to try lol. Women are hestitant bc they don’t like competition just like men which is one reason why I think men don’t want another man in the 3some.

  • She Speaks

    Nothing wrong with a threesome. Make sure all parties involved are mature enough to handle the situation (and afterwards) and be sure to COMMUNICATE. Just speaking from experience. It can definitely be a fun, exciting, interesting way to play out fantasies etc.
    I know was the one that mentioned the idea to my man and planned it out so there was no gray areas.
    Anyway, I can already picture the comments coming from this article saying “It will make/give your man a reason to cheat.” etc. I’d bet you he already wanted or was cheating on you before that.
    P.S. MN, pop-up ads…get rid of them. Kthxbi.

  • nat

    This is a terrible idea.