Don’t Worry, Your Man Loves You: 9 Ways He Shows His Love Without Saying It

September 27, 2012  |  
1 of 9

Some men don’t know how to say it, and some men have never said it to a woman who wasn’t blood related, but that doesn’t mean that a man doesn’t love you or isn’t passionately in love with you. Society conditions men to behave a certain way, that way being to withhold love while simultaneously demanding it. Because of this, some men aren’t always able to verbally express how they feel about you, but many show it in a number of other ways:

The Kisses

Be it the soft forehead peck or the passionate knee-knocking lip-lock, the way a man kisses you tells you a great deal about him and how he feels about you. You can be sure of his love by the way he embraces you each time he kisses you, and if he seems to anticipate each kiss that you two share.

He Misses You

No matter if it’s a few weeks apart or a few moments, he makes the effort to express to you that he misses you or that he needs you, through phone calls, messages, letters, status updates, tweets or by whatever means–that’s a proclamation of genuine affection.

He Tries To Change For You

Men, by far, are not perfect creatures, but when they are trying to improve in order to become better boyfriends, lovers or counterparts, then it’s usually love that drives those intentions. Examples of this is when he’ll agree to go dancing or do other new things that he’s never been open to trying before. Or better yet, trying to be more open to try things he doesn’t like to make you happy. Compromise is a beautiful and loving thing.

The Departures Are Something Out Of A Movie

Parting is always the hardest for lovers, but in that moment, a small gesture of love takes place as one of you walks away: if he glances back toward you as he walks away, or if he stands, gazing at you as you depart, then that is an indicator that he misses you already. That one extra glance or extra look should reassure you that he thinks that you’re special. The same can be said if he lingers, hesitant to leave.

He Gets Creative For You

Times are hard, so a creative hand is usually a ‘go-to’ for a man who isn’t vocal with his love (and isn’t balling money-wise). Poems, paintings, songs, sonnets, notes, letters, crafts, ceramics, posters, collages, skits or stories are only some of the possible things that your man may have created for you to show his interest in you is still impeccably strong. Creating projects takes time, energy and patience…just like relationships, so creativity is a strong sign of his love.

The Hugs Are Deep

When a man draws you in completely, chest-to-chest or head-to-chest, with his arms folded around you, cradling you like you’re something precious, you can feel that affection. It’s within reason to assume that he truly adores you; because men usually reserve that level of intimacy for women who they care deeply about.

Everyone Know Your Name

You two are hanging out together, watching movies…or doing whatever, and his phone rings. No matter who’s on the other end of the line, he announces to the person that’s he’s hanging out with you, stating your name and making it known that you’re an important part of his life. If everyone in his social circle, as well as his family, knows who you are or at least knows about you, then there’s no doubt that he talks about you quite a bit.

He’s A Good Sport, Even After Meeting Crazy Friends And Family

Meeting the friends and family of your significant other is always difficult, especially when you’re not sure how concrete your relationship is. But, if he’s willing to meet with your family and friends, and undergo being grilled and scrutinized by everyone who’s close to you, then you should realize that he wouldn’t do that for just anyone. Your man most likely loves you.

Trending on MadameNoire

View Comments
Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. XOXO-MN
  • I absolutely loved every single little this short article, I will surely book mark this excellent website. i will be meet to learn to read your current splendid blog site, thank you pertaining to granted an details to all of us.

  • Otis Darko


    We all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Otis Darko to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and don’t want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Otis Darko to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Otis the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Otis Darko with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Otis Darko asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don’t know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Otis Darko was that the told me the out come of the election before the election date last years because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can’t give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email ( otisdarko60@ (yahoo). com) rewrite to usual email format if you are asked for material to do the spell don’t go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be.

  • Regina Bruce

    Am very happy to tell every one to hear my testimony. Am a nurse,this is a story of my love life.I have been married for 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 4months until i met a post where this man Dr OLOKUM have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self.You can contact him with this email address {LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM} Thank you Dr OLOKUM LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM

  • Ellen Stifler Logann

    This is a fact that i know and every woman that will be reading this also know. We will do anything possible to keep or get the one one we love though we might go about it in different ways but what does it matter how we went about it all that matters, is that we get them. My now husband for two years was not always in love with me me he only saw me as this close friend and personal assistance. He was married to a very beautiful nice woman. I always prayed i would get to have a very happy family like the he had with his ex wife. You could fill the love and passion in the air just as you walk into their home. This ought not be be my story to tell but still i will because he is my husband now. After four years of their beautiful marriage, i say beautiful because they loved each other at least i know my husband loved her then. His ex wife out got really sick he developed stroke. It was really bad but he never left her side he always always there for her. He was always in the hospital with her day and night. I just though he was the bravest and caring man that i have ever know. And yeah, she got well but not all the way i mean she came back but not her love and affection. I don’t know maybe it was the sickness that changed her or she never really loved my husband and felt he was the cause of her problem her sickness and all the bad things that had happened to her since they meant. She gave him hell, she got mad at him over every little thing she stopped him form seeing all his friend and female friends and even made him fire me. She was obsessed with things like he was cheating on her and his friends are telling him to leave her. She was diagnosed and was free form psychological break down. I don’t know she just developed hatred for my now husband. She constantly threatened to take everything form him his house, constructing firm and even with that he still loved her. He would complain to me all day about what’s happening telling me how he wants to fix thing between him and her even when it became really bad that they no longer shared the same bed she would not let him touch her. I thought it was my chance with him but i was fooling myself because yeah i told him how i felt for him and i thrown myself at him but it did not work he still wanted to be with his wife. He live like that with her for one year. I loved him and he was suffering i wanted to set him free from her so i contacted a powerful spell caster Obudun Magonata to help me make him love me. He asked me to get some materials which was hard for me to find because i would have had to break many laws and got my self in trouble so i just wired the expense to him and after four days my wise came true he loved me just as he love his ex wife i was the apple of the eye just like how he was the apple of my eye but Obudun Magonata told me that his ex wife would let let us be and she will frustrate our love until we give up and just as he told me it happened he wanted 70% of everything my husband had and the court was already in her favor plus she was from a very powerful family. That brought another problem he was ready to loss all he had for us but still he did not want to loss them but thanks to Obudun Magonata He helped use with another spell that made her drop the case and just signed the papers to let use be together. I t was mind blowing what Obudun Magonata did for us it not just as you read now it was so supernatural. Even before i had my first child he told me that we will last forever till death because of the two kids i will bear for him. Its also coming to pass i have a 2 years old son and i am pregnant for the second child now.Only those like me who Obudun Magonata have helped knows how powerful he is. Only him can solve the unsolved if you need his help use this email (spiritsofobudunmagonata@ (YA HOO). COM) rewrite this email in the standard email format to use

  • cherry

    I saw this email address drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail. com on the internet of a woman testifying how she got her ex husband back, so i emailed him about my bad relationship condition, how my lover left me for another girl. So Dr Stanley told me it would take 24hours for him to get my lover back to me after the spell is cast, i waited for 24hours, and wow!!!!!!!!!, unbelievable my boyfriend came to my house asking me to come back to him again. He broke up with the other girl and we rekindled and got back together, he now show me care and attention. Thank you Dr Stanley for your help…..cherry from Nottingham, UK

  • Bayer Scott

    American is changing for the best i can say this because the gay community just literally got liberated i mean we can officially get married and be part of the the American society. When i heard the news i was filled with joy i mean me and my fiance the man i have always can finally own our marriage certificate in Georgia.It was not always right for us if you know what i mean. Before we got married in California ,he was not in love with me or i would say he was in love with me and lost for another guy and it was frustrating.We were off and on and mostly times our break up was always bad it always ends with huge fight. I loved him and wanted to be all his for the rest of my life but he did not see that he wanted to have me to himself and still see other guy i mean who does that? He was the queen of heart breaker and also was perfect when he wants to mend the heart. This was why i also went back to him no matter what always led to our ugly break up. But this madness just kept going on over and over with us and like i said i was sick of it. You can’t hurt me over and over again and still come back to me i mean i am not a play thing you use and drop when you tired. Judge me if you will it not like i care because all my life people have always said trash about me but if i had paid their attentions i would not have been this happy. After searching for means to make him commit to me even taking him with me to couple counseling i decide i contact a spell caster called Obudun Magonata it was just an arbitrary choice i mean, i told myself if he can’t help me i will move on with my life maybe the one i clam to be the love of my life was not the one after all. Obudun Magonata is an angel sent from a place i don’t know.He save me and made me he happiest man on earth or more preferable the happiest gay man on earth . I don’t know how he did it just after he help me cast a love spell, every pain that i was going through was lifted of my shoulder like magic my lover became the queen of hearts i would say he became mine and loved me like his life depended on it.When i first contacted Obudun Magonata, he told me to come down to his temple so i may witness the greatness of his work we got the materials we used for the spell together and just after four day i say the greatness of his power.But i spent a lot Because i had to travel all the way to Africa.It will be cheaper for me to have had him get the materials form me but i was foolish. But its amazing i still got my heart desire. He also told me that the gay community will soon be free and in just two months his prophecy has come to pass. Who wants to tell me he is not great contact i you will here you will not regret your decision use thus address spiritsofobudunmagonata@ ( yahoo ). com rewrite to a normal email format.

  • Leigh Talbott. my thanks to you for a great works

    When I married my husband I was already pregnant and so I didn’t have a job. He had a really good job though so I was able to stay home and take care of our son when it was born. When we had our second child we moved to a bigger house, but then strange things started to happen. Things would fly off the walls and doors would slam at night. Our oldest son talked about seeing figures and hearing voices. We consulted a medium and they said the house was haunted. After living there about a year more with only minor occurrences we moved out. That was when the bad luck started to happen. Everything started to fail, with my husband’s job, our money and our luck in general. I went back to the same medium and they told me that a spirit had followed me and placed a curse upon me for disturbing it and not being respectful in the previous house. He tried to remove it but was unable. The misfortune kept going on and getting more severe as I tried to search out someone to break the curse. But when I found Dr.dodogods spell he finally did it. Things started turning around almost immediately after he cast the spell and have been great from there! This was really a miracle for us, thank you Dr.dodogods spell from the bottom of my heart!

  • Just Me!

    LMAO at your last example.

  • Anonymous

    I am really happy that dr.marnish reunited i and my lover back. is a rare spell caster to find and I’m glad that I met him on time to help me bring back my lover. I’ll be forever thankful.” if you need his help too you can call him +15036626930 dr.marnish based in united state, Rebecca

  • gloria.e

    hi my name is Gloria. E here is my delema i was married
    for 2 1/2 years with a guy that i dated for 8 years we have a 2 yr old daughter
    together well in October out of the blue my x husband came to me and told me
    that he did not love me , did not want to be with me , and that’s why we did
    not have sex for the last 4 months prior , and he told me he had a new friend ,
    and that he was sleeping with her , and seeing her as a friend , and he told me
    that i was his friend too and that he wanted to separate with me, i really love
    him so so much i cry all day all night i always tell him come let solve the
    problem together and come together as one family again but him wouldn’t listen
    to me, i saw a testimony online how people testify against Dr Omo, solving home problem and many other thing so i
    email Dr Omo and i explain every thing that happen between me and my husband,
    he told me not to worry that he have solved this type of problem so many times,
    Dr said he is going to cast a love spell and also renew our relationship so
    that my husband will love and cherish my forever, after the casting of the
    spell my husband came home asking for my forgiveness that he is not going to
    cheat on my again that he love me. PLS HELP

  • bigdawgman

    How about he doesn’t cheat or flirt recklessly?

  • NVAdamzz

    Number 5 is my favorite. I love when someone uses their talent to make me gifts. It makes me feel like I inspire them and I realize being creative takes a lot of effort. My mom went to Mazatlan and painted a sugar skull for me and I was beside myself. I love it!

  • Just saying!!

    Whoops…maybe I shouldn’t have broken up with him! 🙁

  • Just saying!!

    Whoops…maybe I shouldn’t have broken up with him! 🙁

    • bigdawgman


  • Ashley

    Awwl my hubby loves me! He does all of these 🙂

  • Pingback: 9 Ways Your Man is Silently Letting You Know That He Loves You -()

  • u-know-it

    HA!!! My man loves me!!!

  • PosterGirl

    I’ve been fortunate. My husband does all of these things, or at least tries to. For those of you that are worried about the actors, studies show that good relationships have a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions. You’ll definitely want to keep that in mind and pay attention to *everything* he does with you, not just the good stuff. Keep your heart out of it till the very end–when you plan on sharing your life with someone, you have to be as practical as possible.

  • misslawyerladii

    This article made me smile during every click of the page. Everything they said sounds like my man

  • MsRedBone

    Besides the crazy parts of the comments already made I agree this was a good article. Its sad some women are so bitter they can’t consider the fact that maybe a man IS capable of being genuine. Yea, men play games…but so do women. This article wasn’t abou playing games it was about you spending real time with someone and being able to tell he has love for you even if he doesn’t express it all the time..Sheesh…Deppression hurts…Cymbalta helps! Some of ya’ll need a prescription!

    • sailau

      Yeah, my man treats me very well, boo boo…lol

  • DeeDee

    Please this list can also be executed by good actors which most serial daters are.

    • bigdawgman

      Yeah, but they can’t keep it up for long. Give him more than a month, and he’ll show you his true colors. Hence, the 90 day rule.


    ….but what if he’s a good actor :-/

    • bigdawgman

      Eh, they can only act so long. That’s why you don’t rush in, give him time to show his true self.

  • Reese

    Awww, this article warmed my cold, little, black, and cynical heart. I have a little hope, I’ll meet a guy that will do all of the above listed things.

    • RJA

      This comment made me LOL! Thanks 🙂

    • Miss K

      Me too LOL – and that last picture is so beautiful.

      • auntjdfejmh

        Hi there, if you don’t mind, I would like to recommend a bisexual dating site to you. /////bisexualchats. / c0m //////the largest place to meet local successful, attractive and available BISEXUAL singles!! Hope you will like it. Bisexual women looking for bisexual couples, bisexual couples want to date bisexual women and men,single bisexual girl and boy. hgfhj



  • Yokessm

    Everyone deserves to feel like this( well minus the obvious suspects, murderers and such)

  • L-Boogie

    Again, stay single. The things men do to women when they are in “love” is so ridiculsouly stupid.

    • Yokessm


      • L-Boogie


        • Yokessm

          Lol you’re cute.

          • JaneDoe

            LMAO, you guys.. L is entitled.

    • Jennifer

      Why all the hate? Do you lack a partner that expresses these feelings to/for you?

      • L-Boogie

        No hate. Dealing with facts. Plus, I am not interested in men or women. Just achieving.

        • Coco Black

          I like your comments…they give me a giggle!!
          Plus I have yet to meet a brother who has done allllll of the above. Suppose I will …. some day!

          • Former Nice Guy

            Oh I’m sure you have… and you most likely told him “lets just be friends” or accused him of stalking or being creepy. Why do many men act the way we do? Because we (some of us) have learned the simple fact that


            Those who haven’t will continue to suffer and be rejected.

            A lot of those things on the list are typical nice guy behaviors, and I’m sure many of the guys who do ALL or even half of those things are involuntarily single.

        • Raygirl

          Oh…not I know why you are single…You don’t quite have the personality to be kind to another human being. People more concerned with achieving are self-centered.

          • sailau


  • L-Boogie

    Stay single.

    • Jennifer

      Bitter much?

      • L-Boogie

        Yes, because you do not have to date a man to be mentally and financially screwed over by one.

        • L-Boogie

          Sorry, my comments are not showing up.

      • L-Boogie

        Again, yes. I am just tired of men treating women like they are so stupid.

        • bigdawgman

          Don’t worry, we eventually grow up. Some just take looooonger than others.

        • Ryan Donaldaon

          Ain’t that the true

  • Na Na


    • sailau