I’m a man and I don’t disagree with this list. But I thought the “He cares about the dumb things” was a little out there. I understand in part what the author is getting at, but at the same time, who never cares about what restaurant or bar or movie they go to? Who never cares about the temperature of a room? Are men not supposed to have opinions about these matters? Those aren’t dumb things. Those things aren’t decided arbitrarily. Those are choices we make in life among thousands of others that are made.

To be honest, this whole list is basically about men trying to boost their egos off of women whom they think would be more into them than they are into the women described above. I recently overheard a man who weighed no less than 500 pounds talking about his “women” in derogatory terms on his cell phone in a store parking lot. Someone has to make these men feel good about themselves, because if they could feel good about themselves on their own, then they wouldn’t have to play dumb games with women. They would be upfront about their feelings and wouldn’t allow the women to continue to make fools of themselves by feeding their hungry hearts with lies just to keep them around. Keeping women like this around simply gives a man with low self-esteem bragging rights.

Here’s my point..women at least this woman, is not dumb! You tell your friends about me, Ima keeper, to let you tell it, then you disappear physically. Are you scared?? Not even pressing for a commitment, and most of the signs he doesn’t not display. But how long is a girl to wait for something a little more?!?! It been nearly four months and very few dates..I told him to get real, honest with himself, and call when he grows up..this is for the college-aged men. Can’t believe that HE is missing this good thing..ME!! I’ve drawn the line cause there are other men..thank god!! lol

I don’t agree with three things listed here. He doesn’t want to meet your friends(Lol..of course he does to see who he can hit on),he kisses rough(this type of guy won’t kiss her at all)& he pushes for sex(why would he, when a woman who puts up with this type of treatment is usually willing and waiting)? At the end you be surprised how the tables turn,but only if a woman has time for nonsense and head games..

Every woman will run into that elusive, unavailable guy at least once. The good news is that they show you who they are from the very beginning, because they can’t fake what they don’t feel. A lot of men would have women believe that’s a reflection of the quality of the woman, but sometimes, a man just doesn’t want who you are. There’s no point in jumping through hoops for him because it won’t make a difference. So, if you only hear from him at 2AM or some weird time, like you don’t exist at any other hour of the day, cut him off before you become emotionally vested. Some of these guys also make promises that they don’t keep, because they never intended to take you to dinner or attend some event with you in the first place. When they’re honest about where you stand with them, it’s easy. But, it takes a little longer to figure it out when they lie to you, because then you have to see that their actions don’t match what comes out of their mouths. So, walk away early while your self-esteem is still intact.