Stop Faking It! Reasons You Might Not Be Having the “Big O!”

August 26th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean

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A friend of mine recently revealed to me that, at age 30, she had never had an orgasm. Poor thing! I was shocked, but more interested in how her partners (read: egos) were able to deal with “failing” to bring her to the Promise Land. “Simple,” she replied. “I fake it!”

Gasp!

No one woman should ever have to fake her sexual pleasure at her own expense, or the expense of a man and his ego. If you’ve never been able to climax, even on your own, then there may be some serious issues that require healthy examination as to why you can’t “get there.” If you’ve been faking it, here are some reasons you may not be able to have the “Big O.”

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  • Coco

    Some men are selfish in bed…only concerned about themselves and believe the whole act is for their pleasure..rather than mutual pleasure. That sums up my ex, and that’s just one of the reasons why he’s my ex. He actually got upset when I made numerous attempts to speak to him about it…he said I should just go with the flow which meant un satisfied!! So faked it a few more times, then has a 4 week period, then i called it a day. God, glad he’s gone lol. But I’ve heard similar stories

  • IllyPhilly

    Poor thing indeed. Tell him/her what you want and if she/she can’t do it, do it yourself!

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