Ask a Very Smart Brotha Live: Can I Just Have a Sexual Relationship?

August 22nd, 2012 - By madamenoire

Lisa: Why is it when a man has a good woman he still lives at home, won’t help her and doesn’t act like he cares but is always saying “it’s gonna get better, I love u and will do what is needed, in time???

DY: The good woman hasn’t given him any reason to do better. Why go fishing if fresh fish is delivered to your freezer every day?

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  • Thank You!!

    “The good woman hasn’t given him any reason to do better. Why go fishing if fresh fish is delivered to your freezer every day?”

    Why would a woman want to be with a man who wont do better unless he is forced to do so??….that’s what he’s suppose to do anyway!! ?A “Good Man” would always strives for better regardless, single or in a relationship, whether for himself or for his family.. What a stupid answer -_-

    • CarlaKah

      I think the key is that you shouldn’t commit to him and give him the “good man”- treatment (by supporting him and showing him exclusivity), if he only deserves the “good boy”-treatment (kindness, healthy distance and friendship).

  • linda

    they don’t try to treat it like a real relationship. But if one person
    wants more, they are setting themselves up for an emotional train wreck,I
    am beautiful woman and I love good man…..inter racial romance is my dream… so I
    joined —blackwhitеPlanet.С0M—–it’s where
    to- connect with beautiful and excellent people!hy go fishing if fresh fish is delivered to your freezer every day?

    • MLS2698

      So y’all know how to copy and paste now, huh?

  • Blueberry01

    I believe the “soup question” came from Finding Forrester.

    • CarlaKah

      YES

  • Gye Nyame

    A sex only relationship can be great if the 2 people involved want it, and they don’t try to treat it like a real relationship. But if one person wants more, they are setting themselves up for an emotional train wreck,

  • hollyw

    “Plus, you gotta keep those numbers down, right?” Hahaaa!