Is he slob?
If at the end of your vacation, you’re kicking his clothes out of your path just to make it to the bed, you know that homeboy is not one for tidiness. If you’re the type of woman who vacuums daily, you’ll have to ask yourself if this is something you can deal with. If his sloppy ways are really starting to test your patience, you may have to finally break down and ask him, nicely, to pick his clothes up. Pay attention to his response. If he freaks out, claiming that you’re treating him like a child, but has yet to remove the clothes, then maybe he’s not the man for you. The reverse is also true. You don’t see a problem with the fact your cosmetics are taking up ¾ of the sink, but he can’t stand it. If you find his affection for clean to be stifling then you both have some things to work out.