No Guys, No Problem: Why A Women’s College Should Be An Option (If You’re a Woman)

August 17th, 2012 - By Tonya Garcia

President Obama speaking at the Barnard commencement in May. Image: Barnard College, David Wentworth

There are tons of college options out there: big universities, small colleges, in the city, out of the way on a spacious campus, co-ed, all women…

That last one (applicable if you happen to be a woman), is a no-brainer for many people. I went to a women’s college — Barnard — and was once asked, “Well, what was the point of going to college with no guys around?” That person was (kind of) joking.

So what is the point? ”When I’m thinking about Barnard specifically, I think we’re able to provide a world-class education in a small liberal arts environment,” Pamela Phayme, Barnard’s director of diversity initiatives told me. She highlights the intimate classes, the ability to get to know the campus community, and the college’s association with Columbia University, which is right across the road, as some of the Barnard perks.

I personally enjoyed the experience for many of the reasons Phayme gave. I grew up in the New York City public school system, graduating from Brooklyn Technical High School. You need to take a test to be admitted to Brooklyn Tech, but it’s part of the public school system nonetheless. There were 5,000 students in my high school. Barnard’s website says there are about 2,400 students enrolled. It’s a difference you can feel, coupled with an incredible faculty.

I’ve actually never met Ms. Phayme and went to the school long before she arrived. Phayme didn’t study at Barnard; she graduated from the University of Virginia and did her graduate study at James Madison University. She also worked at Hofstra University for two years prior to joining one of the Seven Sisters.

The Seven Sister schools — the seven all-female liberal arts colleges in the Northeast — are Barnard, Bryn Mawr, Vassar (which is now co-ed), Mount Holyoke, Smith, Wellesley, and Radcliffe, which actually merged with Harvard and is no longer a standalone women’s institution. All have some connection to a larger, Ivy League university and, one way or another, it’s not that hard to see guys. Besides these schools, there are lots of others out there as well. I’ll be focusing on Barnard and its Sisters since that’s my alma mater — goooo Barnard! — but all of the schools seek to offer women a unique educational experience that is enhanced by the single-gender campus population. Once you graduate, a women’s college diploma makes an impact on your resume. Besides the name recognition of these seven schools, a women’s college education speaks to the rigor of the program and the commitment of the graduate, which resonates with anyone looking over your resume.

“Today, of course, women have many options, but we have only become more convinced that, for many women, a women’s college is the best option,” says the Smith College website (italics, theirs).

All of the Sister schools offer a traditional liberal arts education. At Barnard, Phayme says many students major in English, from writing to literature and beyond, dance and fine arts. However, there are a number of students who opt for the sciences and other areas. The student body comes from around the country and around the world. And for all of these schools, the point is to nurture women leaders; smart women who confidently go out into the world to tackle the areas and industries they’ve prepared for. Do you hear “I’m Every Woman” playing in your head yet?

 

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  • Merriegirl

    Good university’s provide their students with experiences that will help them transition into the real world. The hope is that they’ll grow into high functioning adults that mesh well with society. Though there are many benefits to being in a single-sex environment. Those students will always miss out the opportunity to interact with their peers of the opposite sex in the unique venues that college provides. (Living within close proximity, analyzing complex and controversial topics together, & surviving outside of the home together) These are skills that they can use when interacting with the opposite sex in the workplace, in their marriages, and in public occurrences. I am sure the culture of a single-sex college is a unique exciting exeperiencing but its not worth all of what you’ll be missing at a co-ed university.

    Also many people meet their husbands and wives in college. If the student is straight they will never be around so many single, like-minded students who are of their peer group.

  • Merriegirl

    Good university’s provide their students with experiences that will help them transition into the real world. The hope is that they’ll grow into high functioning adults that mesh well with society. Though there are many benefits to being in a single-sex environment. Those students will always miss out the opportunity to interact with their peers of the opposite sex in the unique venues that college provides. (Living within close proximity, analyzing complex and controversial topics together, & surviving outside of the home together) These are skills that they can use when interacting with the opposite sex in the workplace, in their marriages, and in public occurrences. I am sure the culture of a single-sex college is a unique exciting exeperiencing but its not worth all of what you’ll be missing at a co-ed university.

    Also many people meet their husbands and wives in college. If the student is straight they will never be around so many single, like-minded students who are of their peer group.

  • dreamer40

    Back in April 2004, I made a decision I now regret. I chose CU over Smith College, and always wonder what could have been. I ended up being a women’s and gender studies major, and spent significangt time as uppercasman across the street at BC.If you’re a high school senior or college freshwoman/sophomore, don’t count out single-sex college education! Especially if you were coed Pre-K-12. I really do believe being in an all male/all female educational envrionment works wonders for becoming a confident young professional

  • mythoughts

    All female HIGH SCHOOL…yes. College, NO!!

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  • mslilbit51

    My daughter starts at Barnard in a little over a week. We will be driving up to NY from Florida. I never thought of her going to an all girls school until she mentioned Barnard. Turns out she applied to three all girl school and got into all of them but her heart was set on New York. I did research on the school and it turns out that it is a very good school and I am proud to give them my money. class of 2016

    • Ms. Esq

      I am so jealous of your daughter. I was set to go to Barnard for college but finances kept me out. It’s a wonderful school and its connection to Columbia University is really strong. When I was looking at all girls schools, Barnard and Bryn Mawr made great impressions on me. I ended up going to a great school in state–go Bruins!!! But sometimes I can’t help but think about Barnard and what ifs. But on the other hand, I loved my undergrad school. I wish her good luck and congratulations on your daughter starting college.

      • GeekMommaRants

        What a gracious and lovely response. All the best to you!!

  • Timmeka

    I went to a all women’s college, Cottey College, and it more then prepared me for the real world. I came to respect myself and not to aspect anything less because of my gender. I also met beautiful and intelligence women there who are my life long friends.

  • Andrea

    I think an all women’s university would be a good option for any of my four daughters. I don’t agree with the idea that women are not prepared for the “real world” because they are in an all female environment; believing that would mean that you don’t think that HBCUs are real world experiences. Spelman is high on my oldest daughter’s list and I’m so happy that it is.

  • GeekMommaRants

    Actually this can be helpful, especially for first generation college students. Women do not compete with each other when there are no men. So there’s more focus on school and less on other areas.

  • my40cents

    an all girls college…na i’ll pass. i need the real world experience. I have to deal with men and women everyday in the workforce. My college experience should reflect that type of environment…but to each his own.

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