So,You Acted a Fool, Now What? 6 Ways to Move Past Your Spazz Out

August 15th, 2012 - By Veronica Wells


Apologize

A sincere apology, love. This is really not the time to get into an even bigger argument about how his actions made you act a fool. Sure people can influence our emotions but they can’t make you do anything. It’s time for you to put your big girl panties on and take responsibility for your lack of judgment. Whether you’ve decided to terminate your relationship, or are going to try and work it out, you need to let him know that you’re not crazy enough to believe that your actions were acceptable.

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  • Reese

    As someone who has acted a fool I needed this list. I lost friendships, my reputation, and my damn mind behind a man. At this point, I’m just trying to learn from the past, move on, and start anew.

  • bkabbagej

    “Our goal is for “Madame Noire”, to be a “no Judgement zone”, is a hypocritical statement after I just read an artical by another one of your reporters (Alissa Henry) making comments about a very public spazzing of two very famous artist (Rihanna and Chris Brown). The reporter went on to say this artist’s (Rihanna), response to calling the person she ended up spazzing out with “her best friend” was perplexing and that her statement was evidence of love and relationships being warped in our community”. Then under the LOVE section of todays articles you have an article describing the very same behavior Chris Brown and Rihanna are attributed to displaying and calling them indescretions I don’t understand, is the women’s perspective of this behavior explainable and if it’s male behavior he’s not worthy of any consideration.

  • Zettai

    I needed this today.

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  • linda

    it really irks my nerves when people say “Bay” instead of “Babe”… ~ blackwhiteplanet _℃om ~~~~~ is for thousands of upscale men and beautiful
    women, who understand that ambition, success, and glamour are key elements of
    attraction. It’s worth a try!Loved this article, simple realistic and to the point.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=641083204 Lily Torres

    Great article. I kept reading patiently waiting for DO NOT REPEAT! And, tehre it was in the last part. Loved this article, simple realistic and to the point.

  • L-Boogie

    As someone who was accused on acting a fool, I hate it. Everyone listens to someone else but did not listen to me. Eff this list.

  • L-Boogie

    As someone who was accused on acting a fool, I hate it. Everyone listens to someone else but did not listen to me. Eff this list.

  • Ooh La La

    This has nothing to do with the article, but man it really irks my nerves when people say “Bay” instead of “Babe”…

    • vwells1

      LOL yes! I specifically used it to illustrate how irritating she’s being.